How does a woman tell a man that she likes him?

Question

There is this guy in my Uni. We attend the same course and obtained an Industrial Placement in the same company.
He always looks to see where I am and calls and texts me frequently. I am married, but we have split up. The guy was very interested in the breakup and has been really sweet to me since then. My problem is, that I think he likes me, but sometimes he behaves a bit strange, so that I am not sure whether I just imagine those things.
We went to cinema the other night and I thought that will be when it clicks, but didn't. I am really confused, because I really like him and wonder how obvious I need to be for a man to understand me.
Please help me, as I don't know what to do.

Thank you all. I'm worried, that if I tell him and he somehow doesn't like me. He might make fun of me and I couldn't bear that, as i have to go back to uni with him next year.
I wanted him to ask me, because I think that that is how it is supposed to be, but he just doesn't ask!

Answer 1

Tell him. This advice is so underrated. Just tell him. He can't read your mind. And it doesn't sound like you can read his. Talk to him!

Answer 2

I agree with several other posters here, that we don't want more attraction than necessary. Many women when they're pursuing men will compliment them, and often in relationships the compliments will go both ways. But often in my experience if I show too much kindness or favor to a guy, he takes it as a come on or an opening. Then if I clarify i was just being nice, I get accused of being a tease or it just doesn't stop him anyway. It's quite frustrating really.

Answer 3

As for me I think women are never suppose to tell a guy that she likes him or whatever you feel about him. Look at it this way a man is a man married or not ! .. If you don't want a relationship well fine ... what we want to do ..make him want you ...and then you play hard to get .. and at the end he gets what he wants then you get what you wanted in the first place... whether it be sex or whatever... Never let a man know that you want him .. they take it to their head! always make the man want you make him crave YOU!!!! .. ok the end !!!! Believe me it will work just fine :)

Answer 4

He may be put off by your still being married. You should just talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he responds in kind, you go from there. If not, you'll know what to do.

Answer 5

It sounds like he is interested in you but maybe a little afraid to go further due to you not being divorced, only separated As far as you letting him know that you like him, actions speak louder than words & it sounds like he already has an idea of how you feel.

Answer 6

Don't worry. Is normal that you want to know more people. So you need to be careful. Your marriage are in a game. Be sure of what is the intention of your friend. Talk with he.

Answer 7

Why is it so hard for women to tell someone they like them? All that tells me is that if we had to wait on women nothing would ever happen.

Answer 8

Here's what you do:

Say, "Hey! I like you!"

He likes you too or he wouldn't be texting you and calling you. Just tell him. You're making yourself crazy.

Answer 9

he might be confused as well... just tell him in straight words and IF he says NO or doesn't respond, don't get dis-heartened. move over to the next available male...

Answer 10

go to the movies with him again...and in the darkened theater, reach over and gently stroke him during the movie. He'll get the idea that you are interested...in at least parts of him.