We agreed we were friends; now why is she doing these things???

Question

A while back I told a girl that she was my type but I did not want to go out with her. She said that was ok because she did not want to go out either, and since we really good friends, we remained such. Now, in a group setting we go to every week, she showed up last week wearing a shirt with her nipples peaking through. Several people noticed and said she was looking at me a lot also; I did not notice her nipples however. This week she sat across from me, and she played footsie with me for an hour and a half straight during this group meeting. Noone knew except for me, and she reached all the way over under the table to play it. She says that she does not intend to flirt, but why is she constantly touching me now??? HELP!!

Answer 1

I hope you keep condoms in your wallet because if you two are EVER alone you two WILL end up having sex. She might have just told you she thought of you as a friend because you said you felt that way... she might have also changed her mind and now you've peeked her curiosity. Plus, if you didn't want her playing footsies with you, you would've kicked her off so I'm assuming you want her too. That's kind of how me and my boyfriend started out three years ago... we both thought the other was attractive but didn't want to make anything bigger of it. After a while we started hanging out by ourselves, going out for lunch stuff like that, eventually we kissed and its been on ever since! Good Luck!!!

Answer 2

You need to learn the game son!

Chicks operate on attention. She wants your attention, but doesn't want to come out and say it. So she says she doesn't want to flirt. She knows that she is your type, but wants to save face and not tell you that she likes you because she knows you don't want her that way so instead she is trying to convince you of liking her without being the first to say it. Did you get that?

Here is what you do. Flirt back with her, but don't ever talk about it and don't let her know how you feel, always keep her guessing. then flirt with some other chick in front of her. If she gets mad then you know exactly what she is thinking. If she doesn't care, then she is just playing around.

Answer 3

Does she have any men in her life? Women like to play the game as much men do. Can you honestly say you've liked someone and told them no because you were playing hard to get, or had someone else already. Or the probable one... She really does like you, and thats why you guys are such great friends in the first place.

Answer 4

It probably confused her when you said she's your type yet you don't want her. She sounds like a dumb girl who's out to prove you wrong. Don't believe her when she says she doesn't intend to flirt. No one is that stupid. Call her out on her behavior. Tell her it makes you feel uncomfortable.

Answer 5

If her intent was not to flirt.. it wasn't working as she was indeed flirting with you. Maybe her feelings have changed and she doesn't want to say anything for fear of being rejected by you since you told her you did not want to go out with her.

Answer 6

Seems like she wants to be more friends now than before or she is testing your limits to see if you really just wants to be friends or more than that.

Answer 7

she wants your attention....but if you are not interested...let her know she's trying a bit too hard...and you're not feeling it. She probably wont like it but I'm pretty sure she will stop

Answer 8

She wants to try to tease you to the point of intense arousal...and then tell you that you had your chance, too bad.

Answer 9

Because she wants to get you in bed!

Answer 10

Captain Obvious time :))