he was walking down the street and he got shot, he was minding his own business and they killed him. somebody help me.
2006-10-27 03:24:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
We're here for you but I think it's important that you get some 3-D people around you. Call some buddies or stick close to family. This intense suicidal pain is temporary -- concentrate on small things like what you might like to say at the funeral, don't focus on huge issues. Honor him by sticking it out.
2006-10-27 03:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by LisaT 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that it happened. I cannot even imagine the pain you are feeling.
Right now it is overwhleming and you aren't thinking well. You know that your brother wouldn't want you to join him in death. He would want you to enjoy the life that was taken from him. He would want you to keep his memory alive for him so that he would not be forgotten.
Please get some counseling. Suicide is a permanent solution to a problem that will heal with time. Stay here for him, for you and for your parents.
2006-10-27 11:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by Buffy Summers 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend I am so sorry for your very tragic loss. I think that you need to speak with a counselor. There are crisis lines. Call Samaritans first and ask for a number for a crisis line.
Try to be strong I know you are in agony but killing yourself will not help. I will pray for you that God will give you strength and comfort.
2006-10-27 10:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by JAM 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've been through pretty much the same thing. my best friend who i considered more of a brother was killed by a drunk driver our senior year of hs. we were planning on going to the same college to play basketball but after his death i gave up on it. just know that everything happens for a reason. your brother is still with you. hang in there, it'll get better.
2006-10-28 01:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, tightend, don't do this. You say you are 17, and as much as you hurt right now- this is not the solution. If you are seriously that down, you need to get to a phone and call 911. Tell them you need to talk to a person. This computer is not my choice way to help you, I can't type fast enough andyou need a live person right now. Please, please, call for help and get somebody with you ASAP. Don't do anything until they get to you, as bad as right now feels, there are better days ahead and you have to live for them. 17 is too young to give up on yourself.
2006-10-27 10:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by The mom 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry! that is really really sad! i pray that God would be with you and your family during this difficult time. But you are so young. please do not harm yourself. God loves you because you are His creation. He has a plan for you. i promise.
2006-10-27 11:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh that would really help your pareents...losing 2 sons
go to er and get help
2006-10-27 10:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋