My males friend are like you are together don't worry about a title but wouldn't you like to know, he says he's not looking for anything BUT he doesn't want me to see other people
2006-10-27 03:11:57 · 20 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A month is much too short of a time period to be worrying about what you have with your man. If you want him and think it is possible you may want to get serious with him in the future, then the very best way for him to come around and get serious with you is: Don't let him think you are the least bit serious. STOP even talking to him about what you have with him. Just take it to heart that you only have a dating relationship. During the times you are not with him, let him wonder what you may be doing. Allow him his space, so he can think about you and miss you. Most of the time, when a woman or girl starts talking to the man or boy about "their relationship," you actually "push him away" a little. You HAVE TO LET THE MAN COME TO YOU. Let him wonder. Let him be jealous. Let him think about his feelings toward you. I was divorced for 16 years and dated a great deal. Believe me, follow my advice, and it will benefit you. You will also feel a lot better about yourself, instead of worrying so much.
Good luck!
2006-10-27 03:19:25 · answer #1 · answered by peekie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What.. the guy doesn't have the balls to tell you that he likes you even just a little bit after dating you for over a month? Is he waiting for christmas next year? Look, he's putting you in a position you yourself is at lost. You're not yet comitted to him so you can still date other guys that will appreciate having you by their side. Don't limit yourself sweetie, enjoy your freedom to choose. If he still comes after you, and realizes that he really, really wants you, and you feel that you still like him, then let your feelings out in the open to avoid further misunderstanding. In that way, both of you can really express how you really feel for each other, emotionally and physically... stay cool... c",)
2006-10-27 10:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by kernel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, one month is way too early to define any relationship. Right now you guys are dating and are close friends, (intimate or not, it doesn't matter), and are sizing each other up as a potential life partner. This process can go on for years. Relax. Enjoy your time together and let nature take its course.
2006-10-27 10:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by Arnold M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While the beginning of a relationship may be very overwhelming and exciting, you need to keep things in perspective. One month is a very short amount of time, so just enjoy it and by the way, your friends are right, don't worry about putting a title on it. Enjoy!!
2006-10-27 10:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The guy you are seeing is the kind of guy that wants to have his cake and eat it too. If he wants you to date him exclusively, then he has to agree to do the same. And that is what you call a boyfriend. I recommend you keep your eye on this guy (I suspect that he isn't the relationship type and will hurt your feelings if you are) and be ready to drop him.
2006-10-27 10:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is looking for the title now, do you want to commit, you can ask the same of him, because he is ready.
2006-10-27 10:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by Keanu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are allowing him to bong you, he just wants you as a sex friend and does not want to catch any STD from other men (that is why he doesn't want you to see other men) And if he is not bonging you... then he is gay and is trying to look straight. You are entitled to be with a real boyfriend.
2006-10-27 10:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow, what it is it is and what it turns out to be will reveal itself in time.. All is well relax and enjoy life...
2006-10-27 10:40:58 · answer #8 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way it sounds to me is that he wants you when it is convienient for him and he doesnt want you with anyone else because that would mess it up for him. Sounds to me like you are a booty call.
2006-10-27 10:15:16 · answer #9 · answered by cmsmith114 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy it for whatever it is. Back off the labeling. It's what scares guys away.
2006-10-27 10:13:36 · answer #10 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋