i started dating this gal on june first week and we slept the following week on the 10th of june but she is pregnant 5mnths is it my baby or not,i don't know what to do i'm confused,what can i do cause i don't want the baby to suffer.
2006-10-27 03:10:03 · 11 answers · asked by phar 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
well,I would say a perternity test was in order for sure, 5 months doesn't seem right according to your dates,but on the other hand the doctors could be wrong also,they were off with my child's due date..It would be for your satisfaction of just knowing foresure, that, that is really your child..But also,If it did happen just before you met,the question is,DO YOU LOVE HER? and would you consider this your child even if it may not be?She still in anyway, needs support,and the child nees a father...But anyways,hope it is your baby!!! good luck.
2006-10-27 03:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by jan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After the baby is born have the paternity test regardless. If the baby is yours then it's yours. Now that was simple.
BUT, if the baby isn't yours then two things can happen, you can accept the child or reject the child. Either way the baby deserves to have a medical history of his biological father and that side of the family. Adopted children are sometimes scoffed at but they are chosen, sometimes fought for and always wanted. That is more than some natural children can say. So what ever you do, what ever you decide, get the kid a medical history of his biological father no matter who that might be.
2006-10-27 10:39:26 · answer #2 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you care about her? Do you want to stay with her or would you be with her only due to the baby? The baby is not yours if she is 5 months pregnant; however, after the baby is born and you still have questions, you can have a paternity test completed for your own personal satisfaction. There are instances where due dates are incorrect and so there is always a possibility that she is not as far along as the doctor is saying.
2006-10-27 10:16:23 · answer #3 · answered by robbin m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she conceived on June 10 she would be 21 weeks, 6 days pregnant as of today with a due date of March 3. I'd say it's a possibility you are the father, though of course it's impossible to say without a DNA test.
2006-10-27 10:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by Shana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be mistaken on the age. it could go either way. I'm counting about four months. If you have to get a DNA test when the baby is born so you'll know for sure. But for right now, she needs support. Even if it's not your baby, it's still a new life and your girl is going through a lot and needs help.
2006-10-27 10:14:02 · answer #5 · answered by Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is certain that she in 5 months gone, then sorry mate, but it's not yours. However, these things are never an exact science and I would suggest a paternity test after the baby is born. I know this is uncomfortable, but have you discussed your concerns with your lady? If not, you really should and she may be able to put your mind at rest or even discuss any concerns she may have.
2006-10-27 10:24:04 · answer #6 · answered by mark_virgin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well according to the dates. No. Considering pregnancy is actually 10 months and just counting from the date you gave June 10---5 months would be sometime November. Doesn't add up----using the date calculation.
2006-10-27 10:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesn't make much sense. u need 2 get the paternity asap. talk 2 a lawyer now (no time 4 procrastinating) so that u can start getting the paperwork 2gether and when the baby is born they can do the test right then and there. this is for your own and the babies protection. its not possible that this is your kid unless the dr. calculated wrong.
2006-10-27 10:19:17 · answer #8 · answered by Miki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be, the only way to be sure is to have a paternity test done after the baby is born. Good luck.
2006-10-27 10:14:16 · answer #9 · answered by smllover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe from the dates you gave she would be around 4.5 months +/- if you were the father. Doctors could have given her a wrong due date.
2006-10-27 12:19:53 · answer #10 · answered by Jody 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋