I have just started uni and a guy in my block is really nice and cute he likes me but he is one track minded i think he has a sex addiction which is fine with me as long as he is not sleepin around. The problem is he has to go back in 9months to his conutry and am afried that if i fall for him am going to get hurt
2006-10-27 02:24:08 · 10 answers · asked by bintaj01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No it's not worth it, your body is worth more. He is just going to see how many girls he can play with while he is here. Think about it, is it you that he likes or is it what you can give him that he likes? Don't confuse someone wanting to sleep you with someone liking you........there's a big difference. You haven't said anything about the two of you spending time together, going to a movie, going out to eat or anything, but you jumped right into sex.........raise your standards and don't give in to just anything. As women, we have to demand more for ourselves, if not we will never get the respect that we deserve. Don't allow yourself to be another notch in his belt.
2006-10-27 02:36:45 · answer #1 · answered by DaddysGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men seem to have a sex addiction. But if you think it might be a serious problem then its not worth it. if he is genuinly addicted he will get it where ever he can find it and won't consider your feelings. But if he's not addicted and your relationship is great you might be able to work it long distance when be goes back to his country.
2006-10-27 02:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shut yourself in your room, draw the shades, and retreat as far as you can away from life and the many experiences it has to offer. You are not ready for a chance at happiness or despair if you going to worry about before you even get started.
2006-10-27 02:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by dfw308 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then dont even mess with him.....& that is NOT fine...how would you fall for someone who u think is a "sex addict"?? because more than likely if they are addicted to sex...then they wont be sleeping with just YOU!!!!! find a man that actually lives here & that doesnt have a one track mind on sex!!!
2006-10-27 02:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not worth it. The last thing a young woman needs is another notch on the bed post.
2006-10-27 02:26:40 · answer #5 · answered by Jon C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to get as much booty as he can before he leaves. His level of caring for you and your feelings is obviously unimportant. Nine months of girls before he leaves...it's a conquest thing he'll be able to brag about when he gets back to his country.
2006-10-27 02:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i would say no it is not worth it. however uni is all about making mistakes and learning by them its about experiences good and bad, so just do what you feel is right for you.
2006-10-27 02:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by dubgirl26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. if you really like each other, it could work
2006-10-27 02:27:15 · answer #8 · answered by blue_mole_7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then dont go out with him
2006-10-27 02:26:36 · answer #9 · answered by im that guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else
2006-10-27 02:28:39 · answer #10 · answered by szfr8l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋