My husband confuses me, I say I only want our two children and he says maybe later we could have one more and I say no and then he says okay, yeah one more baby would be a lot to handle.
2006-10-27 02:07:34 · 12 answers · asked by fourcheeks4 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I'm just afraid i think that if I have a baby later then something will be wrong with the baby
2006-10-27 02:18:32 · update #1
I think you two should really sit down and discuss this. Find out if you could handle, afford, tolerate another child. How would our current children handle another silbing, etc etc. You need to decide upon it, or you're just going to be driving yourself crazy with all these questions. sounds like your hubby with be fine either way, what do you want? Good luck!
2006-10-27 02:20:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess this would have to be something for you and your husband to sit and really talk about. Does he know your fears of something being wrong with a 3rd child? Why would you suspect there would be anything wrong? Are your other 2 children healthy? And just from personal experience, 3 is not much harder than 2. I hope you guys can figure things out. Good luck!
2006-10-27 02:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by Snowflake25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you for being towards it and retaining out robust on your son's rights! There fairly isn't any purpose to circumcise a little one. It is an useless surgical procedure and has no advantages. It too can motive headaches and constantly reduces a person's sexual leisure. Not to say, it is your SON'S frame, no longer any one else's. He will have to be in a position to make the alternative while he is older for his possess frame. Little boys are born ideal and there aren't any explanations to vary their our bodies. Foreskin is some thing nature made him, and there is no purpose to take away it. If guys were not intended to have foreskin, they would not've been born with it. Your husband desires your son circumcised simply considering that he's? That is not sensible. That does not anything for the little one, it is simply on your husband's possess warranty. Your husband should not want his son to appear like him! Is he additionally going to get a pubic hair wax to appear like his son? C'mon. Sit down and feature a speak along with your husband approximately this so you'll arise with a choice in combination. Make definite to inform your husband that there's no well purpose for circumcision, and that the foreskin is an overly realistic aspect of the penis that comprises 20,000 nerve endings and makes up the vast majority of the penile epidermis. I simply desired to say right here that the foreskin of a child and younger little one is hooked up to the penis. There aren't any "folds of epidermis" like anybody stated above. The uncircumcised penis of a little one is a ways less difficult to hold blank than the circumcised penis of a little one. In a circumcised little one, there's a contemporary wound to deal with. In an uncircumcised little one, the foreskin is hooked up like I stated so you do not must blank beneath it. The first character to retract the foreskin will have to be the boy himself. Also, simplest part of American boys at the present time are being circumcised, so he's going to NOT appear exclusive within the locker room. And although he does, why can we deliver our kids beauty surgical procedures to "have compatibility in"? Would you deliver your daughter a breast augmentation if she received made amusing of for having small breasts? No. Next, circumcision for a little one may be very painful. An anesthetic is NOT used, and commonly the little one's penis is not even numbed correctly. The foreskin should be RIPPED off earlier than it may be reduce off. Watch a video of a little one being circumcised, and exhibit it on your husband!
2016-09-01 03:23:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guy's go with the flow If the wife wants she gets And every thing makes the world go round :)
2006-10-27 02:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
things will be fine God never puts more on a person than they can handle. if it's meant for you to have another it'll come if it don't come just enjoy the two you already have. children do bring much joy to ones life.
2006-10-27 02:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by BALEY B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband was the same way after our second one turned one. we talked about it then and he agreed it was to soon to think of one more. Now we are pregnant . we desided to go for it. My second born will be two in dec. But you have to do what is right for you. good luck
2006-10-27 02:37:55 · answer #6 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really doubt that ther will be something wrong with your baby but in the end it is all up to you if you want to have another child go ahead but if not then dont
2006-10-27 02:25:23 · answer #7 · answered by pickel231991 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants more sex. What guy doesn't?
Hope you two kids can figure things out. Good Luck
2006-10-27 02:11:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have three almost 4 and really its not that much more to handle i say go for it !
2006-10-27 02:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by lisamarie7901 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe later as you said let it be many things can happened and
changed from now and maybe later you decide its your body
2006-10-27 02:16:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋