I am 11 years old
2006-10-27 02:05:21 · 14 answers · asked by Kayla A.K.A. BABY GIRL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all my friends tells me not to dump him! plus i dont really want 2 either.Iam confused. he is 12 yr old but we still in the same grade!
2006-10-27 08:30:31 · update #1
am i asking 2 much
2006-10-27 08:34:44 · update #2
He might be shy as appropriate for your age group. There is no harm in belling the cat as you have been doing if you consider him worthy of your friendship. If he receives your call or answers your greetings eagerly and cheerfully, then he values friendship with you as well.
2006-10-27 02:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by peaceman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a twenty-four-year-old woman in the same situation. My current boyfriend is attending school else where in the world and we are doing the long-distance relationship thing. At first I was the one always calling him, but I started to get tired of always being the one to call. So, I would not call him for long periods of time. It would drive me crazy not talking to him, but I have learned that if he doesn't hear from me for a week and a half he'll pick up the phone and call.
So, in short, I suggest that you just stop intuiting the conversations and communications and make him do it. Don't talk to him. It may sound silly and childish, but it worked for me.
I also think that eleven is too young to have a boyfriend or even to start thinking about having a boyfriend.
2006-10-27 09:16:31 · answer #2 · answered by moonguardianluna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl you are too young to be worring about him, don't worry about little boys like hiself, but at the same what do you expect you only 11 and he probably is too, he's not a man so you can't expect him to act like one, just stick to having friend boys not boyfriends, you are too young for drama like that anyway.
2006-10-27 09:13:40 · answer #3 · answered by babycakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl please act like you dont care dont call him dont say hi wait until he does///always look your best no matter what if you want his attention you have to act like you are better than him ///Girl act like you are to good for him to be acting this way turn your cell on vibrate so you wont get tempted to call/// always be surrounded by others///look like you are having a good time///if you glance his way and he is looking just wave and keep it moving keep it MOVING dont call him///Remember look your best all time there is nothing better than a girl looking real real good and smelling real good getting other male attention and he notices this he will approach you and he is going to ask you why you havent called and why you dont say hi////And that is when you drop it on him tell him exactly how is it be honest tell him" yeah i got tired of chasing after you" Im young and dont need to be chasing after anybody you know my number and you know me YOU CAN CALL ME KNOW AND YOU CAN SAY HI JUST LIKE YOU JUST DID i will always acknowledge you....Play HARD TO GET ////take it from me men love that/////
2006-10-27 09:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by melanni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 11 years old. i am 31. i'm telling you from experience that this happens quite often. when you come across a guy like this, he is not worth your time.
my advice to you is focus on your schooling, get the best grades you can, and be ready to choose a career. this way you will not have to depend on a man when you are all grown up. be a strong independent woman, who can take care of herself.
i'm talking from experience, take care of yourself before you worry about what is going thru a guys head. cuz trust me, it aint much!!
2006-10-27 09:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by melinda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry girl, It sounds like he isn't that interested, there are plenty fish in the sea, but at 11 are you ready to fish? Slow your roll a bit, but this one needs to be tossed back
2006-10-27 09:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey at your age, I wouldn't even worry about it. It seems to me he can't be honest with you, and just tell you he doesn't want to talk to you. You ought to tell him all you want is a friend to talk to, and it is ok, and good to be best friends with a boy if that is what you want.But be honest with him too, if you just want to talk to him. At that age guys are kinda funny, and if you want to talk to him, don't expect him to call you, uless he wants to talk. Why when you want to talk to him, do you think he ought to call you.
2006-10-27 09:21:19 · answer #7 · answered by CHEROKEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop contacting him at all for at least a week and see what happens. Maybe you'll meet someone new in the meantime.
2006-10-27 09:09:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god you are to young to be worrying about guys
there are better things in the world
just tell him he is the guy and he is suppost to call you
2006-10-27 09:11:48 · answer #9 · answered by basketball child 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety you are too young to worry about these things. just stop paying so much attention to a person that doesn't deserve it.
2006-10-27 09:08:33 · answer #10 · answered by rovina g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋