2006-10-27 01:57:58 · 21 answers · asked by sivle 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Do what outside?
Rephrase your question and try to make some sense.
2006-10-27 02:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by sarcasticquotemarks 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I take it you spoke about this before getting married having children is hard work and for a woman very pain full not to mention the emotional pain that can go with that i have had 3 children and i am not going to have any more because i think any more than that and i wont be able to give them there individual time that they need you need to ask yourself why you feel you want more children and you need to remember that the 2 children you have love you and want your love concentrate on them and stop looking at it as you are, you are not just living with only having 2 children you have been blessed with the children you have some can't even have 1 try looking at it in a less selfish way
2006-10-27 02:30:16 · answer #2 · answered by happybluebeauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect your wife. She is the childbearer and probably the one who does all the work for you and the children. If you have more children outside the marriage, not only are you an adulterer but you have not cared for your wife's feelings. Who would look after the baby. Would the other woman come and live with you or would take the baby off her and bring it home for your wife to look after. Man, get a life!! Grow up. Your wife is not a babymaking babysitter. She is a real person who could be the strength of your family. All you need to do is stop thinking stupid like this and treat her right.
2006-10-27 02:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by vzhnri 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Is your wife the one taking care of them most of the time? Is she the one who gets up in the night with them if they are sick or scared? Are you helping her around the house? If she has to much on her plate already why would want to put more on it? That is if you really love her, which I have my doubts after your question. Besides, haven't you ever heard 2 company, 3 a crowd? Just pour more of your love into your wife and children you already have.
2006-10-27 02:09:44 · answer #4 · answered by Bekka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
outside by having sex with another woman to get your other child? wtf she needs to leave you as soon as possible. I have two kids and that's all I need. The thought of having a newborn is killing for wife and she was probably put in misery while she was pregnant and the first year of the baby. You should just be happy with your two children, it's not just like a puppy you can buy at the store and only live for 12 years, a child grows into an adult and lives, she will have a major problem with that losing 3 kids to college or them going off to live their own life, she is smart by sticking to two
2006-10-27 02:03:05 · answer #5 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Do you mean that your wife is going to leave you with the two kids or she doesn't want to give birth to anymore kids? Maybe you two have a communication problem. Sit down and talk it out. Maybe you will come up with a mutually agreeable plan of action for your family.
2006-10-27 02:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
By outside you mean cheat.. No. That is wrong. You may ask her and keep asking her till she gives in and has one more. But I would look at your life now, and if you arent helping out with the kids, like daily, as in feeding, bathing, playing ball with etc.. She might not want more, cause she does all the work.... But if you are helping with the kids, keep asking her.. She will give in, whether it's 1 month from now or a year from now.. Good Luck
2006-10-27 02:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by sshhmmee2000 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I work with kids, I have 2 kids, I sometimes get caught up in the fights the kids have at work,at home and at my kids schools.........IT'S THE HOLIDAYS..................... HAVE MY KIDS! Please just take them, increase your family instantly and have added stress.
I am sure there are lots of mum's being driven mad by their little darlings - have theirs tooo!!!
Seriously though, Are you a hands on Dad???
If not you really shouldn't be asking let alone wanting - kids are b.hard work.
What is it exactly that you want to do outside???? - If it is what I think it is then you will end up with no wifey and no kiddies!!! Use your brains. (p.s. not the ones in your pants!)
2006-10-27 03:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your wife who has to carry your children for 9 months, not you.
Do you look after them at all?
If not, then you are an incompetent father. Sorry to be so blunt but it has to be said.
2006-10-27 11:01:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mean produce a child with another women out side the marriage? I don't think your wife would be OK with that one bit!! You really to to think about if its the want of another child or out of the relationship that is bothering you.
2006-10-27 02:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by lisamarie7901 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's abit to late for her to decide that!! but someone has to do the job and with you being the father all thats left to do is jump in and give it your best thats all anyone can ask of you. and pray that when the time is right God will send a women in your life to help you with your children.who knows God just might open your wifes eyes up.
2006-10-27 02:02:59 · answer #11 · answered by BALEY B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋