started as on/off relationship(i was doing the dumping,which resulted in him crying and begging me to stay)bc he had a habit of talking about other asian girls inappropriately(he has a thing for asians, i'm also asian).then after about a year, i had a 5month break with him (he wanted to get serious). afterwards, he still wanted me so we got back together.but this time the arguing was worse, our parents/friends hated us dating.then i dumped him again but this time he agreed.i tried to get him back but no.then after about 2 months, i accepted it somewhat and was moving on with 2 different guys, but just light dating(gets JEALOUS).then out of nowhere he wanted to get back together.then needs time alone to study for 5 days for exam. but i see him on 3rd day at library and he dumps me after i confront him about staring at a girl there (we're in college). his excuse is that he's too busy studying for med school, he didn't see a future for us,we argue too much,and he misses being single. help
2006-10-27 01:42:17 · 11 answers · asked by samoa s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds as though the time for your relationship is gone. I had a relationship very similar to this. We just grew apart, argued and did not spend much time together anymore and we could no longer attempt to make it work. You can't make him want to be with you-the jealousy is what keeps bringing ya'll back together. You don't want each other, but you don't want any body else to have them either. Good luck and turn and walk away.
2006-10-27 02:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the guy. Aside from all the BS he gave you, I think you better off concentrating in school and yes, you are still in college. There are a lot of opportunities to meet new nice guys. No need for dramas during this time of your life--believe me. Been there.
PS: I'm an Asian too and believe me, there are tons of guys out there digging you.
2006-10-27 08:46:01 · answer #2 · answered by Mumbling Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both you and the guy need help. A relationship should not be this emotionally stressing. Since he ended it now and gave a lame excuse consider the matter over and find a guy who treats you the way you want to be treated.
2006-10-27 08:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by Mark S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's right. When there's constant arguing in a relationship the relationship will ultimately fail and you'll probably both be miserable in the mean time. I think you might be better off apart. IMO
2006-10-27 08:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by GreyGHost29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go of this relationship. I don't think there will be future for your relationship. I personally feel that if couples have too much quarrel, the relationship won't last long
2006-10-27 10:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl u r wasting ur time with this guy there is a lot of fish in the sea
2006-10-27 08:46:57 · answer #6 · answered by im that guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are other fish in the sea.... give up on the drama already and being single is something to be enjoyed!
2006-10-27 08:45:16 · answer #7 · answered by ooh baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about the guy..
study hard... go for more activities.. know more people...
get a good job in future.....
trust me... there is no lack of opportunites to meet all kinds of guys in society... you are still young... get a good degree and good job first..
2006-10-27 17:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by alfahomme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guys confuse, he'll probility need help emotinaly, also, Just focus on school. Besides, you find true love WHEN you stop searching....
2006-10-27 08:46:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get away quick!! there is no compatibility between the two of you anymore
2006-10-27 08:47:50 · answer #10 · answered by JUBILI83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋