all the guys used to send sms to her and she replies them i have not spoken about this to her she goes out with her boy friend For Eg:for shopping but i feel unsecure how to handle this ??
2006-10-27 00:12:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her. Talk to her abt how you feel abt it.
2006-10-27 00:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want to know something about her and her past relationships then the way to find out is to ask her. Do not try to find out anything that is not cool.. Just remember do not ask questions that you are not prepared to hear the answer. Have you ever heard the phrase, "what you don't know can't hurt you."?
I say leave it alone on the subject is she naughty or not? If you are in a committed relationship and are going to have sex than I think it is important to know if this is each others first time or not. If she has guys that are just friends than you can have girls that are just your friends too. If you have not went out with your friends that are girls you should and see how she reacts. How she reacts will tell you what you need to know. Let me know how it goes.
2006-10-27 00:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by Shadozzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U could always ask her...
But what she did before she met you is none of your concern. Everyone has sexual/ relationship secrets, and its up to that person if they wish to tell them.
She shouldn't really still be seeing her ex's if she is involved with you. If you are insecure...talk to her about it. She probably won't see it as jealousy, but more that you love her and are concerned.
And if she wont stop... then she is not woth it.
2006-10-27 00:23:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off what she did before you is none of your buisness, don't aske her that she will be upset. just sit down with her and explain to her that you are not used to having a girlfriend that is so comfortable being friends with men and that you are feeling a little insecure about it. let her know how you really feel about it and she will reassure you, and she will appreciate you being so open and honest about your feelings.
2006-10-27 00:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by insane illusions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she do this even now when u r in her life & loves her then u must talk to her straight away without having any misunderstandings 4 her.
but if it was in the past then forget it & don't be insecured!
otherwise ur relationship will end up like ashes.
2006-10-27 00:19:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The past is the past. You should not be asking her about it.
But, if she is communicating with the old boyfriends in any way, then you need to talk to her about it. Tell her that needs to stop.
If she won't go with your requests, there are always more girls out there. Good luck.
2006-10-27 00:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before U loved her she could have done any masti, what does it matter now ? The relevent ASPECT IS , WHETHER OR NOT SHE IS NOW FAITHFUL TO u ALONE , OR CONTINUES HER ESCAPADES WITH OTHERS.
2006-10-27 00:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore if u love her and she loves u.
if u r a boyfriend to her like others, keep cool and search for another.
2006-10-27 00:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just burst out to her ur feelings...dont wait anymore...it'll make u depressed...
2006-10-27 00:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you mad?. You would have done this before you accepted her as ur gf
2006-10-27 00:31:59 · answer #10 · answered by petros 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god why are men like this, everyone has a past it is what makes your girlfriend who she is today! get on with it
2006-10-27 00:17:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋