I feel guys make effort to lenghen their time during connection.
Is that because they think girls actually like it to be longer? I get so tired, but I don't want to say directly that I want him to finish early...!
How do you think guys?
And what should I do? Help...
2006-10-26 23:59:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Come over and find out. Just kidding. Yeah actually I like to wait because it makes me feel more satisfied and tired at the end. Plus holding out during sex makes the orgasm a whole lot better. Plus if i really like a girl, I'll stay in her longer because I want to share that time with her as long as possible. It is the most intimate connection you can have with someone who you really really love. Or it can be a bang up - get er done job on some big tittied chick that you met at the bar. Sex is very versatile like that. So if your guy is staying inside you longer, appreciate it. Enjoy the time you spend together. Because he damn sure is.
2006-10-27 00:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Most of the guys in Missouri only think about sex.They say the longer the better,and they say the harder the better.Take it from me if you are trying to satisfy a man you better get ready for some long sex!
2006-10-27 07:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by briana j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres an expression " wham, bang, thank you mam "
in my opinion sex happens in one of three ways... you can
1- have sex
2- make love
3- f**k
making love is emotional, long, sensual and passionate
sex, ...well thats just sex
and when you f**k some one its fast, furious, hot and sexy, but its over pretty quickly
maybe your guy feels that slow is how women like it, and is very wary of disrupting this pattern. if thats the case, wow gurl..you are lucky.
Just mention the above 3 to him, and let him know that even though you do like the slow love making, a variation is always best.trust me, chances are, he will completely agree.
good luck!
2006-10-27 07:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you try foreplay before going in it may take a shorter time,sometimes longer the better for some but if you guyz time your selfs together then it wount be that long and its going to be wounderfull.
2006-10-27 07:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by alfa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he snorting drugs??
my ex snorted and then he could never get off. i hated it. i would get off and then the next hour or two he would just be pumping away. or i would try 'other' things and he still could not get off. it made the whole experience tedious and boring.
when i told him i would refuse him next time he did drugs he stopped for a while and the sex was a whole lot better. then he started using again. we broke up. surprise, surprise. not because of the sex but because of the drugs.
good luck.
2006-10-27 08:50:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy usually tries to satisfy the female as well as himself
2006-10-27 07:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by kayef57 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not necessarily. Why not talk and discuss what you like. I am amazed at how many women will let a guy put their c*ck in them but are afraid to really talk to them.
2006-10-27 10:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that men expect women to want it to last as long as possible, but if they are just pumping away thats no fun, i would prefer a hot and horny quickie rather than a long boring shag!!
2006-10-27 07:03:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Geez, here you are, tired as all heck, and you don't want to say anything. I bet you still fake your orgasms too, don't you. All in the interest of not hurting his feelings.
Grow up, girl, if you don't say what's what, nobody is going to do it for you.
2006-10-27 07:01:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel that the way you feel about everything should be understood ..otherwise you are going against the grain of how you really feel
2006-10-27 07:57:12 · answer #10 · answered by doubleg_81423 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋