Just over a year ago i made contact with my biological dad and even though i have never met him and he emails me when he isnt busy I still feel like i trust him. we have talked about meeting up but we have never got round to it cause he is so busy. Is it still ok to trust him?.
2006-10-26 23:50:20 · 15 answers · asked by cavatina_2005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Great question.
Just because he is your father, does not mean he is a good person.
Ask your mother about him, why aren't they together, why did he/she leave, why hasn't he contacted you sooner...
Ask him these questions also, could help you get to know him better and help you decide if you really want to meet him.
Hope this helps.
2006-10-27 00:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is your biological Dad and I am happy that you met him, however I am concerned about his not meeting you after you made contact with him over a year ago. Any father I would thing would be on the first plane to see a daughter he hasnt seen in a long time, no matter how busy he might be. Why hasnt he paid for you to come see him????? I dont mean to disappoint you or in any way make you feel bad but this situation just doesnt sound right.
2006-10-26 23:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by shirley e 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't met him, you don't really KNOW HIM. Any father who is too busy to get together with his child for a year has something going on that's not right!! NO ONE IS THAT BUSY!!!!! I know you WANT to trust him but you really can't take that chance. How do you know for sure he's really who he says he is? A person can say anything in an e-mail
When (IF) he does want to see you, don't do it alone, please! Have a couple of friends or family with you at all times. If he's really who he says he is and if he really cares about you, he'll understand and be proud that you are wise enough to take precautions !! Don't be with him alone for any reason for the first few times you see him. There's something about this that raises a red flag. .
2006-10-27 00:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iam so very glad 2 know that u've got to meet ur real dad through e-mail.But trusting a dad who doesn't even have the time to meet his own daughter doesn't make much sense.Well,you can give it a try; but do make sure that you don't go overboard at the first go itself.Once you feel he's trustworthy,go ahead!Wish u good luck.
2006-10-27 00:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by sillo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no person is asserting what he did to you emotionally became ok, yet you ought to have been a super boy and walked away an prolonged time in the past, particularly than be a teenage drama queen and out him on fb. You 2 the two sound like terrible human beings and that i'm happy i don't be attentive to the two certainly one of you.
2016-11-25 23:03:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine why your dad couldn't in one year's time find the opportunity to meet with you. You didn't say how far he lived from you and maybe if it is a long way or he doesn't have the money. All of that or some of that could be the answer but I am thinking something is wrong, please be careful.
2006-10-26 23:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by Diane H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm well you never know if thats you biological dad. it could be a pshcho running around you heard a lot of stories about raps and kidnaps so just to be safe i would say for someone to go with you or call the police and ask someone if the can go with you just not in the car and not dressed like a police but let them just have their guns and their handcufs incase. good luck!!
2006-10-26 23:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by divachick95 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think so.We can't trust anyone unless we met it.Their are lots of cheating going on internet.If you are still not satisfied you should try to meet him or you can try to get some information about him from some other sources.
2006-10-26 23:58:41 · answer #8 · answered by Mayank Sharma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on how much you want to trust and in what way u wanna trust?
parents are always different and we always want to trust them ,but well since u guys never meet and he was always busy, so donot have very expectations from him... you might get dissapointed ....
take care
2006-10-26 23:56:57 · answer #9 · answered by hi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn of his pass. You want to trust him, you really don't, not completely. As it is, you must meet him. I am sure you feel very excited, as I do for you, even now.
God bless us all...
2006-10-27 00:08:53 · answer #10 · answered by lee f 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋