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2006-10-26 23:29:37 · 16 answers · asked by genewade013 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
get a job.save your money. once you have enoght money for 1st and last months rent move out
2006-10-27 00:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man i ve been right there in fact walked into it. My parents- in - laws are just the kind of people. We live in a joint family. The house ( actually its a big comfortable family mansion- that's why we are here) belongs to them . So the rule is always kinda my house so I dictate whether I make sense or not. My husband and sister in law grew up just like that. My in- laws interferes in everybodys life. From the time when everybody wakes up to what clothes I wear to work - they want to dictate everything. But six years down the line I have found a way out to live my life my way. I just ignore and do my own thing mostly. Thank god my husband and other members are very understanding and co-operative. Actually everybody is in the same boat. Life is not perfect. But I dont blame myself everytime when somebody comes in my way and blocks my path and hurts themselves in the process.
2006-10-27 00:09:04 · answer #2 · answered by pakir poyum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still being supported by your mom and dad? In other words do they pay for your food, provide shelter, clothes and all of your other needs? If so, the answer is you must abide by their laws. Until you are self-sufficient and can take care of yourself, have a job and your own place, you basically have no rights but the ones they allow you to have. That's the way it is.
2006-10-26 23:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a minor and live in their house - you do as they say...period !
Their law is the law as far as your concerned.
Once you become of age - you can move out and do as you like.
You are not different or exempt from going through the same thing that every body else has to go through growing up.
I thought the same thing when I was a kid, but reality is what it is and it's much easier to see the other side now.
Sorry.
2006-10-27 03:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by jarhed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEPENDING HOW OLD R U AND WILL THEY TAKE FOR SERIOUS.For example, I am a rebellion ever since I was a kid, and set up rules. If I wanted to go somewhere, I would've told them where and what will i do, and listen no arguments.First they will think that you are spoiled,but work on their trust.And that happens a few times, and when they see when u do nothing wrong and tell them the truth always, they will believe in or word.Hope u understood me.
P.S.Sorry for the caps
2006-10-26 23:35:04 · answer #5 · answered by bilezlatko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are under age and living under their roof, you follow their rules. When you are on your own, living in your own place, supporting yourself then you can live by your own rules. But remember generally parents have their children best interest at heart. They make up rules because they love you, they want to protect you and as well teach you so you are prepare when you are out in the "real world"
Tons of hugs from Mel (http://www.youtube.com/ssgluceywife)
2006-10-26 23:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say you want to talk to them like an adult about the situation. But that only works if you have been acting like one!
2006-10-26 23:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by Jon O 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should respect their order because they are your second God on earth if you dint obey you will have the worst life to live.and you will not be comfortable so when do say just do it at the end of it will see the kind of fruit they have harvest in their family and you one day when you have your family you could like them to be the same like your parents did for you.its good to obey
2006-10-26 23:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by mima t 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is your age. If your old enough to speak to your parents with a little attitude then i agree with your parents sorry
2006-10-26 23:32:26 · answer #9 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either move out or say yes sir.
2006-10-27 00:32:49 · answer #10 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋