MY bf says dat LUV is trust . IS it true can I trust him. Plzzzzzzzz help me. He trusts me a lot. Even though people have tried 2 create misunderstanding between us by talkin all nonscence about me, but still hez always trusted me. Plz help me.
2006-10-26 23:27:18 · 22 answers · asked by arshi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Relax, your boyfriend loves you. If you feel doubt think of it like this. He will never find another girl like you, he will definitely lose something that is worth having. So when you get that little feeling that tells you, "Can he be trusted?" Tell yourself, "He loves me, and he won't do anything to screw us up as a couple."
2006-10-26 23:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey thr,
If u ask me "is trust really important", i wud say "YES".
Can u remember ven u first stopped trusting some1 u loved? Or perhaps stopped trusting an acquaintance? You weren't born mistrusting other people. U possibly held back ur complete trust the first time, or the second time, or the third time u got hurt for trusting some1 who was less than honest with u.
As u grew up in years, u grew up in holding back trust. It became the rite thing to do. U learned that if u didn't blindly trust, u wouldn't be blindsided when a relationship failed. Holding back, saving yourself the pain, protecting yourself, became very important. U knew no 1 could ever hurt u, really, really, badly, as long as u didn't put ur full trust in them. U felt secure and warm knowing no 1 could ever hurt u so badly again.
The reality is, without placing faith in someone, without trusting, even if it may cause you to ultimately get hurt, u'll never experience complete love. Love and trust are partners. They work well together. And no matter how many times u may be hurt by people who trample the trust u place in them, u owe it to urself to bestow the ultimate trust on the next person u choose to love. Choose wisely and placing trust will not be so difficult to do.
Hope this helps
2006-10-27 01:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by Sandeep B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Miss,
I admire ur bf.......
Trust is everything in every relationship. Let it be Friendship, love or anything else. U r the luckiest person on earth that u r being trusted by someone, that too to the extent of................ ur case.
If I were u I would trust him.
Trust once broken cannot be earned back. So be careful.
the trust in ur relationship will lead u both to happiness.
Remeber trust is everything!
Good Luck!
2006-10-26 23:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of love as one feeling that is above all feelings. Don't give love a new meaning as it has too many meanings already. People say that love can be felt differently depending on the level you are at with a person or thing. Like “I love that tree, my nephew, my cousin, then boyfriend, wife, husband, my brother, my mother, then I love God (religion pending). Of all the things and people listed here, who would you trust the most? Who of them do you love the most? Trust and love are measured separately, but love should only have one measurement. Either you love, or you don’t love. All other feelings become the measurement of trust and faith. Remember, he’s your boyfriend…trust him like a cousin; don’t marry him until you have the faith that you can trust him like a brother.
2006-10-26 23:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by Hank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Trust and honesty is everything. That's one of the first values I instilled in my children. With trust comes respect. If your honest and people know your genuine then they respect you. And for those that are trying to create these misunderstandings they lack what you already have. Always Keep It Real!!!
2006-10-26 23:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by freeme529 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Teachers these days need shot for passing kids with grammar like that.
To answer your question. You can love someone and not trust them..but without trust a relationship is doomed in my opinion.
So yes trust is very important.
2006-10-26 23:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, trust is the foundation of any relationship. If there's no trust, the relationship will fall.
2006-10-26 23:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by God's Creation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. if u love a person.. u know about that person.. which means. u trust that person... and when some one else comes and says stuff.. how can ur opinion change.. then its not love at all..
so its important..
2006-10-27 04:48:59 · answer #8 · answered by The one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he trusts you then don't worry about it and yes trust is one of the most important thing in a relationship.
2006-10-26 23:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Rockstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the foundation of all relationship.
2006-10-26 23:34:21 · answer #10 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋