here's the thing.. i love my bf. it's just that everytime i see this other guy in my school, i can't take my eyes of him. i want him to look in my direction and notice me. is it cheating?
2006-10-26 23:21:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is human nature to look at others if you are in a serious realtionship it is natural to look at someone else and wonder if things would be better with them (in a physical way or any other). but if you get to know the person at all you may find things that you don't like their flaws will come out and you will gain new perspective on your current relationship and appreciate your bf even more.
so no you are not cheating by looking but you intend to pursue it any further you should break it off with your current guy
2006-10-26 23:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by insane illusions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, its not exactly cheating but it is dishonest in a way. Maybe you need to sort out what you want. Don't go hurting other people. Do things the right way, if you want to be with this other guy then tell your current bf before anything bad happens
2006-10-26 23:24:35 · answer #2 · answered by doofynic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. But your bf might feel that way. I think you might want to talk to him about it & see what he thinks about the whole thing. Being acctracted to people is normal, so don't be worried about that. Depending on what you boyfriend thinks.
I'd say to you, ask him how he feels about it & what he thinks that way you might have a better gage on how to react. If you act to quickly it could cause problems.
See what he thinks by asking him about this & then you'll know to react better without causing the relationship problems or grief.
That is my oppinion, take it or leave it, that's how I see it. I'm not going to be able to say much more than that because I don't know all the facts.
I wish you a good life, & good luck.
2006-10-26 23:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jarod R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not cheating to be attracted to another human being. When you act out of impulse in order to pursue the other person, that could be perceived at cheating.
2006-10-26 23:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No ... no cheating here ...
We can't help the way we feel ... and theres nothing wrong with a healthy fantasy ... as long as you keep the fantasy seperate from reality
Enjoy the thoughts running through your head ... just remember where your heart lays :)
2006-10-26 23:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to Liz! Give your best in school because you're going to miss it! I promise you! No its not cheating, almost because you want to get his attention, so you don't really love your bf so much!
2006-10-26 23:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by confussie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just a natural feeling, maybe this guy has a certain quality that you admire and your BF doesn't. if you act on it, then it's cheating
2006-10-26 23:41:46 · answer #7 · answered by romster2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is NOT cheating. if you take action with this other person that would be cheating dont feel bad.
2006-10-26 23:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry i think it is -- you have feelings for this other guy ---- cheating is about feelings --- you want to be with someone else
2006-10-26 23:26:29 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the other guy is me, then the answer is NO
2006-10-26 23:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by answer pro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋