I did ask my bf why he need to keep it from me(seeing his ex) and he told me he's afraid that I might hurt...(huh)? Why should I, aint?
He axplains that he's not doing anything bad anyway, it's his xgf and am his present gf, he knows how to control and know what is bad and what is wrong. That day I keep on texting him and ask if he is OK since he is not feeling well before we separate, He only say goodnyt and no more, only to find out that he is with his xgf and slept there till 5:00 am.
I dont want to open up this issue again to him since we already talked about it, but I hate the feeling that I have now, asking my self Am I secured to him? I dont want to have any communication to him for a moment, I want to think and for Him to evaluate himself. Will I loose him for asking the space that I need?
Thank you for your response.
2006-10-26 22:57:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
~Sounds like your relationship is even worse than your spelling and grammar. Lose the former and use the extra time you'll have by improving the latter.
2006-10-26 23:01:24 · answer #1 · answered by Oscar Himpflewitz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Will I loose him for asking the space that I need?
If this is the question you want answered, the answer is.....
Who cares!? In your situation, if he doesn't/can't/won't understand, he isn't worth having.
If you are going to let another person control you like this, take a break from ALL men, and get yourself some help! And do NOT keep bugging him, you make things worse for yourself. Tell him to go stay with HER, you have had enough!!!
2006-10-26 23:10:39 · answer #2 · answered by Dante_of_Phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your bf are in an exclusive relationship, I would say I wouldn't worry about losing him because evidently he does not respect you. Regardless of what he is doing with her, the fact that he is with her secretly and there till 5:00 am, does not show much respect for you. But the decision is ultimately up to you.
2006-10-26 23:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by florence t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is chaeting, what is he doing at his Xgf till 5 a.m
2006-10-26 23:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by kido 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from the way you write i could understand that you are extremely sad.... I can understand how you feel.... It's not a proper act of him coming and telling you that he can manage you 2.... It sounds like bloody ****...tell him you wanna break up with him before he tells you.... He has hurt u once dun let that happen again....Every1 is weak at the matters of heart..........
2006-10-26 23:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by Rina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He went back to her because of your lack of education (I know they teach proper grammar in grade school, please use it)... if you are too stupid to realize that he is sleeping with her again, then maybe you will be doing the world a favor by being in the dark over suddenly becoming single again
2006-10-26 23:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is spending the night with his ex, I'd say you've lost him already. No further evaluation necessary.
2006-10-26 23:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, thats not acceptable and instead of trying to spare his feelings just confront him about it...
Its quite obvious that his ex is more important then you, you need to get rid of him and find some one who is not hung up on their ex....
2006-10-26 23:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to see his ex anyways, every one has a past, lets forget about past and think about the future, you sound like an insecure person to me,,
2006-10-26 23:00:13 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain it to him as you just did to us and if he really love you as much as he says he does he will understand!!!
Good Luck honey!!
2006-10-26 23:01:24 · answer #10 · answered by kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋