Its about ayear back we had breakup she is married now & almost everyday i miss her a lot, should i or shouldn't i initiate the contact ...
2006-10-26 22:51:20 · 28 answers · asked by smacky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you shouldnt contact her, she is married, whats wrong with you? Move on
2006-10-26 22:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, don't do it if she had get married.
Don't complicate your life that way. Imagine what would happen if you would actually follow your heart. She definitely will turn you down. (A year had already pass....) And than, what would you do?
Your relation with her is finished. Think about her feelings to. She chose another road, respect that. If you really love her ( and you definitely do, if you think of her every day), than let her live the life she had chosen to live. Don't interfere, she deserve that and make sure that you will be happy to in a not so distance future.
Every end represents a new beginning. Yes contact someone but not her. Make one of your friends ( a girl which is more specia for you) your best friend. Look around you; see with who you can get along with....
Try to forget her. It will be better
2006-10-27 06:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by Night Sorrows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you contact her, what are your intentions? To see if sparks will fly again, if that is the case, I would move forward because she has started a new life for herself (she is married). If its just to be friends and knowing that nothing will ever come out of it, a simple Hi How are you? I just wanted to see how things are on your end is always great. But don't expect to much in return.
Tons of hugs from Mel (http://www.youtube.com/ssgluceywife)
2006-10-27 05:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't!!!! You don't want to be a SOB that broke off her marriage that makes her happy!!! And after it all she blames you for interfering with the man she loves the most!!!
It is hard to hear but it is the truth, the majority relationships that was based on a broken marriage does not work cause the spouse blames them for breaking up a perfect marriage and then to tore you further they tell you that they were happier with their ex husband or wife!!!
Don't do it if she is in a happy loving marriage!!!
Good Luck!!
2006-10-27 05:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hectic...I think you should let her initiate contact. I dont see how it can make you feel good if you initiate it. think about it... you cant be with her, and you need to accept that and move on. and I dont think contacting her will help with that. You also need to think what you r motives are. are you looking for closure? if so they it needs to come from her. This is just my opininon tho - you must really think hard and do what you KNOW is right - not just what your heart wants.
2006-10-27 05:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way Smacky
Please don't go playing with fire, although you miss her a lot She is someone else's wife now. You don't want to cause any trouble between her and her husband, she may never forgive you
2006-10-27 05:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't contact her,since she's married,don't ruin things for her,wish her the best and stop missing her,if it meant to be ,it wouldn't be like this anyways.
2006-10-27 05:57:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now u also know that shes married so now its too late...u shud have thought it bfore....now thrs no need of calling her as now shes started a new life...now she wont *** to u even after knowing that u stilll like her coz now shes entered a new life....a new big step whr she cant luk back.....Now i think its better not to call ...just now let her b happy n live her own life ....!
If u really like her then i think u must b wanting her happiness...n her happiness is in her own new life now......! She cant *** to u now as its too late dear!
2006-10-27 05:58:57 · answer #8 · answered by Neha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go ahead .. till you're sure that you only look forward to a nice and decent friendship.
Other than that ..! ... I wud say , please keep away... coz its too late and you may end up destroying everything.
Shes taken a fair decision to move on and so shud you ..
Forget her !!..and look for someone more appropriate for you. Lot of fishes waiting in the pond, Man!! ... keep your fishing rod ready....Lol
2006-10-27 05:55:54 · answer #9 · answered by Still Alive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't contact her.... do you really want to married her if she leave her husband? better think twice... maybe you miss her very much, but now she is married and anyway... right or not: she decided for him.
2006-10-27 10:35:58 · answer #10 · answered by uhmmmberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋