My friends mean evvvverything to me, and when i used to go out with my past bf's they'd usually be there and most of the time make really good friends with him.
but now with my current bf im sure they won't because of his race... im not racist and i don't want to break up with him jst cuz of where he's from but at the same time, i need there support in this..
i don't want them to be running my life for me .. i don't know what to do?!?!
2006-10-26 22:46:45 · 13 answers · asked by joelle s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If that is true, they are not your friends.
Ask yourself this; do I like him because of his race?
2006-10-26 22:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay if they hate your bf for race they are not your true friends. okay somethimes your best friends can disagree with you but this is called racism the one thing that we need to get rid of in this world! and you need to tell your friend that that's really rude and hurtful because you know what you should be proud of what race you are and where you coem from. i hope it all works out for you.. remeber don't let true love come in between anything..
2006-10-27 05:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by smoothie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at some point in life, you begin to realize that most 'friends' arent really that at all. If your 'Friends' are judging you and your man by his color or national origin, then you should be questioning the validity of your relationships wit THEM, not him. They should be pleased to see you happy, not nagging or threatening because of someones skin color. Thats idiotic.
2006-10-27 05:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by Ivy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a friend to your bf ,you need some time to get a note
from your friends .they care about you,
2006-10-27 06:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either a change of friends or a change of bf is in order. Cannot have your cake and eat it too!
2006-10-27 05:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt your friends will run b/c your bf. but if they do they're incredibly shallow. Your friends should only stay away from you if your boyfriend is dangerous.
2006-10-27 05:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by reviewee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they really love you, they will support your decision to be with him. Don't give up a potentially good thing because of their superficial tastes.
2006-10-27 05:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he makes you happy you don't need your "friends." If they make you happier than he does you don't need him.
That's not racist at all. That's the way humans work.
2006-10-27 05:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are not really your friends. Your boyfriend has done nothing wrong so don't do anything to hurt him.
2006-10-27 05:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by tumbleweed1954 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they r ur true frnds they will understand and u don't need to worry aboutr him being accepted by ur frnds or not its ur life. and enjoy
2006-10-27 05:54:38 · answer #10 · answered by architect_267 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋