I have a time limit right now in my relationship. I'm returning to Japan in March.
Met my bf in summer, and been together now for 3 months.
It's been only a short time, but I love him, and I feel very much loved, even though we haven't even mentioned the word.
In those 3 months, we have traveled to 2 places, now he's going to Thailand for 2 weeks, and after comming back, we're both are going to Spain in Nov.
He had invited me to his Xmas familly dinner this year, and it's his first time ever to invite someone for Xmas with his familly.
I'm Japanese, and I importance New Years celebration. I don't usually invite my bf over for NY this easily, but since I might be leaving the country soon, this might be the only chance I can invite him...
But there are tons of traveling these days. Should I invite him to Japan, or should I not rush and follow my usual pace...? Would it be too much for a guy traveling long distance for every month, and maybe meeting the girl's parents?
2006-10-26 22:45:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Invite him to Japan, if not you might regret it, this could be the love of your life!, if not at least you can say you tried!
2006-10-26 23:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by Kerry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your going to meet his family what's the problem if he was a person from down the road from your home he would have met your parents in the first week. Your making too much of this really it is not a big deal, I am sure he would be delighted to be invited to your home and maybe it will give him the push to say those three little words that maybe you should be saying to each other.
2006-10-26 22:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by Wim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really think that you should wait a while, 3 months is not long enough, OK you say you both love each other but none of you have said it to each other, Wait for the magic to start then you can make a decision
2006-10-26 22:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot of people spend Christmas and new Year with their families but then they meet someone and want to be with them..that is fine..you have to decide what you want to do..I think you should spend Christmas with him at his home.
2006-10-27 07:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun do what u feel will be right if u want to go then go if it will cause u upset then dont u only live once live it good luck x
2006-10-26 22:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by natalie r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would invite him. You only live once
2006-10-26 22:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋