I had a sheltered upbringing (single sex school), and was not sexually active until recently. No I find myself thinking about sex all the time. I have had quite a bit of casual sex over the last month, with man who I have no intention of seeing again. Am I just catching up for lost time or do I have a problem?
2006-10-26 22:41:35 · 12 answers · asked by Taylor Rain 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just make sure u use protection
2006-10-26 23:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think your having a problem, maybe you are?
Why would you have casual sex all the time? this is partly what's wrong with our society now, there's no dignity anymore or honesty. Why would a girl go out on a date and get ready to have sex? what's wrong with meeting the right guy, have a date and go home? get to know him, grow feeling for him and than when the time is right.
You cannot "catch up" on sex young lady and "yes" your starting to have a problem, thinking more of what's going to happen "sex" than the objectivity of a date.
Casual sex is what's creating all the std's and unwanted children. To many people, to much casual sex.
2006-10-26 22:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When growing up I lived across the road from a girl who was very sheltered and not allowed to play with boys. I had 3 brothers and always hung out with boys. My family always had a healthy attitude towards sex & we talked about it.
Her mother thought I was a bad influence on her. She grew up not understanding men AT ALL as she had NO experience with them. As soon as she was old enough to escape her mother and be around men, she went crazy sleeping with as many as she could. She now has 5 kids to 4 different Dads. All I'm saying is Be Careful and learn to understand yourself and men.
2006-10-26 23:04:33 · answer #3 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't have a problem. You probably are just catching up for lost time. Sometime, maybe not soon, you'll start to lose interest in those kinds of relationships and you'll want something different. I wouldn't worry, I was once the same way, now I just enjoy holding hands. just kidding.
2006-10-26 22:49:03 · answer #4 · answered by Hey 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't regret anything, because no one would act unless their actions agreed with one of their morals. Love is a dangerous thing, and there is no such thing as "true love", cuz deep down, there's always some difficulties.
Ok, let me rephrase that. "true love" is rare.
You don't have a problem, cuz there is nothing wrong with what you've been doing.
The purpose of life is to reproduce and help sustain our species, chiefly.
2006-10-26 22:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with thinking about sex , but acting out in that way is probably not such a good idea , to much at risk these days , not to mention your reputation !!!!
2006-10-26 22:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by hasenbeneasy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's catching up on lost time, l know l've been through it. but l came to realize l didn't miss much in sex in was relationships that l still yern for. find a meaningful relationship to share that lost time with.
2006-10-26 22:49:02 · answer #7 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the right person there is nothing wrong with it sounds to me in your past you havent been with men that let you act out your sexuality.Hold nothing back do what feels good within
2006-10-26 22:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by Steve S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are SAFE, there isn't anything wrong with enjoying yourself. Just remember, at some point, you will have to grow up.
2006-10-27 01:01:37 · answer #9 · answered by devlish_blu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you don't have a problem -- its enjoying yourself -- experimenting (as long as you are safe) and looking for someone --- you may not be looking consciously but its there
its ok to enjoy sex ---- as long as you are careful
2006-10-26 22:46:20 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋