iv been seeing my boyfriend for a few weeks now ,im really happy with him and stuff.but we have almost splitcos i can push him away without realising it and i wont really do ''stuff with him''cos i havent done that kind of thing before.how do i overcome this?
2006-10-26 22:30:14 · 7 answers · asked by satine12000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do ONLY what you feel comfortable with! dont let him force you into something you are not ready for! its your life and only you can say what happens. you will know when your ready. however it sound a bit like your afraid. why? has something happened that makes you feel uncomfortable? or because you havent done it before? if the latter the only thing is to try. tell him that before the deed and ask him to be gentle the first time. most of it will come naturally and what doesnt you will learn. and have fun with it.
2006-10-26 22:44:03 · answer #1 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Push him away? Sounds like you're wearing the pants in the relationship...he needs to be more assertive. Your pushing him away is a sign that he bores you, is weak, or simply annoying you on some level. Spend some time contemplating this and discuss it with him when you have a handle on the underlying reasons on your end. There is no quick fix & you'll need to really figure it out through introspection! Good luck. :-)
2006-10-27 05:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best policy.
Tell him how you feel, and if you think you'll feel like a nerd doing that don't worry. Many girls feel that way sometimes. If this is your first boyfriend then that could be it too. When I had my first boyfriend, I know I acted like the biggest idiot. (TRUST ME) (LOL) You'll get over it eventually I'm sure. Just be yourself and NEVER feel you should do something just to please others. GOT IT!!
jk. But really just kick back and don't stress over it. When time comes you'll know what to do.
GOODLUCK!
2006-10-27 05:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by pandora sin llama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Broaden your horizons and try some stuff he likes...you might surprise yourself and actually be good at it or like it. Not too mention guys are turned on by chicks that like to be brave and try new things. He might get an ego boost getting to show you how to do something.
2006-10-27 05:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go at your own pace. If he is the one for you, he will understand that you need to do certain things when you feel the time is right.
Never do anything if you aren't totally comfortable and sure that it is the right thing, at the right time, and with the right person.
If it is.....you will know. Don't be pressured into anything....even if you fear you will lose him.
2006-10-27 05:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by treefrog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not ready dont do it. Even if you are alittle bit unsure wait until you are sure. If he doesnt wait then hes not the right guy for you.
2006-10-27 05:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take pills
2006-10-27 05:31:16 · answer #7 · answered by Andrew C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋