a couple of days ago i was eating dinner by this gorgeous waterfountain my university has. i saw this guy and this 3-4 year old kid who turns out is his daughter. he said hi and i said a nice friendly hi, then we started to chat-friendly-and before i was leaving he asks me where i live. i told him, but not the room number-the dorm complex name. today i ran into him and he gave me abig hug and then as i was talking he kisses me lightly on the lips eventhough i have a bf and he is married. i pulled away and he tried to do it 3 times more but then i told him that i had to go. i told my bf that and he is mad, like really mad that i didnt think ofthis but i didnt expect some stranger who is married to kiss me. this is where it gets even worse: last year i want to a jr. college and my bf went there too and this guy kissed me in order to make me and my bf break up. so it took my bf a while to regain his trust but i dont think that he wholly believes that i dont want to be any other guys girl!
2006-10-26 22:23:57 · 15 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
plus i pulled away from the guy when he was kissing me, did not kiss him back and am a nervous wrek! it happened once and shame on me, but a second time? what the heck is up with all the guys trying to kiss me when they know i love my bf and would never date them nor do anything stupid behind my bf's back? i know that my bf is really mad and he has a reason to ne but how long does it take to rebuild trust again even though i did not kiss anyone or did not want to do anything that would hurt my bf. now i feel like i am at my lowest low and cannot study for classes and cannot sleep and i am afraid that i am putting my health in danger since i need rest since have epilepsy and can have a seizure if i lack sleep!help plz
2006-10-26 22:29:09 · update #1
its not your fault you pulled back your boyfriend really needs to start trusting you more. it takes a long time to regain trust back anywhere from a couple of weeks to a couple of years i really do hope you get it all worked out.
2006-10-27 01:55:57 · answer #1 · answered by legion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't do anything wrong. But because of your past mishap, you're going to need to ensure your bf that you are trustworthy again. Do this by discussing with him the possibility that your "vibe" (body language, etc) that you're giving off might be a little too open or friendly. Take a small bit of responsibility for this happening. This doesn't happen to everyone; the fact that it's happened twice to you is worth examining. Good luck! :-)
2006-10-26 22:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think pretty much all you can do is tell your bf that if he loved you he would trust you. Tell him you love him and would never lie to him or hurt him. I had the same problem with my bf and it was almost like there was no changing his mind once he got his mind set on thinking that i was cheating no matter how little evidence he had. Or how much proof I had that I didnt.
2006-10-26 22:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like youve messed up twice and trying to trick yourself into thinking it is an accident. A man is not going to walk up to someone in the middle of a park whom they have never met and just start kissing them, unless hes a rapist
2006-10-26 22:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by rayking19 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mmm you have done NOTHING wrong --- your boyfriend needs to lighten up and trust you --- if he does not then he has issues he needs to correct
while the guys were too forward in kissing you it really is not a big deal --- you have no feelings for them and it was in public --- cheating is a frame of mind more than actions and you have NOT being cheating or even anything remotely close to cheating
tell your boyfriend to calm down and really trust you
2006-10-26 22:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 00:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk to the strangers! And stop kissing people! I think you should know how to say no,or at least show it...Good luck!
2006-10-26 22:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it seems you led this guy on in the first place, next time try to be a little more reserved, be careful of this other guy he seems a little pushy.
2006-10-26 22:27:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stand your ground, you did nothing wrong. Your boyfriend needs to overcome his insecurities, you needn't do a thing.
Tell the truth and stand by it.
Pure and simple.
2006-10-26 22:33:05 · answer #9 · answered by Norton N 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to pick up a martail art so you can learn how to dodge these kisses!
2006-10-26 22:26:22 · answer #10 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋