he is jealous bcos he saw messages on my phone which my males friends send to me and he think am having affair with them and love him so much i wouldn't like to hurt him and it will be the last thing to do. i intend to call my males friends infront of my man and clear things out as well as tell my males friends not send me such messages again. since the incidence i have not seen him and sending him messages he choose to reply or not. am scared to loose him. what should i do pls. am sick of love
2006-10-26 22:22:51 · 10 answers · asked by sweet girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Sweetgirl
You know what its his lose, this is 2006 and we are allowed to have male friends. I know this must be hard on you and you seem to love this guy but he sounds very possessive of you. Let him calm down and don't text him. I bet he ends up saying sorry to you. Hang in there girl
2006-10-26 22:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi dear
This is the normal thing becoz males always possesive for thier couple if she is girlfreind or wife he never wants that thier girl involve with any body else. Be cool dear & give him ur affection, love & faith. Told him that he is ur 1st need & u love him very much Ignore ur male freinds & tell them If they r ur good freind then they understand ur problem & co-operate with u & will keep a distance from u. It is the main problem of human beings that it is possesive in nature so don;t worry give lots of warm hug to him, some gifts, love, care, importance & show that he the best & most important thing that give assurance to him that no body is important in ur life becoz he is the best freind of u.
Don't worry if he loves u then he understand ur feelings.
Take care dear nothing is impossible in world
2006-10-26 22:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by care 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget messaging him, go around and sort it out in person. Talk to him face to face and if the texts from your friends is what the problem is, call them while he is there and sort it out. If you can't talk to each other in person, there's something more wrong. If he won't trust you after you show him it's a misunderstanding, there's something more wrong. If you actually were flirting with the other guys, there's something more wrong. If you really want to be together, stop playing text games and TALK to each other while you are in the same room.
2006-10-26 22:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men want to feel that they are the only one. Just as you would. If you really care about him you will not let your male friends screw it up for you. Seriously, nip this in the bud NOW. There are plenty of women out there that could take your place.
2006-10-26 22:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do get excited dear,
buy new handset and give that no. to u male friend to send messages on that particular no. or fix a time when u man is not around that it.
2006-10-26 22:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by ronaldo j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what if this whole thing happened to him instead to you...how would you react if you will see txt msgs from his female friends? bet you will be jealous also...he is not trying to control you..he just loves you very much and is afraid of losing you to someone else..try changing your number and avoid giving it to male friends unless they are that important..try doing this and he will appreciate it
2006-10-26 22:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by princess ysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet you could do better. Sounds like he just wants to control you.
2006-10-26 22:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jelousy & suspicion can turn any sane person insane...
Only solution is to talk to him & tell him to trust you...
Communication is the key
2006-10-26 22:29:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think beyond this immature fellow.
2006-10-26 22:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by fleur 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋