im 23/f im 5'3", 130 lbs. thick in all the right spots. nice ***. and i have long brown hair w/blonde hightlights. blue, green grayish eyes. measurement are 32/28/38 i mean im not an ugly girl. i have guys tell me all the time how pretty i am but i cant seem to find a boyfriend. ive been single now for about 8 months and in 8 months not one guys has been interested. what is the problem guys. i have a lot to offer. im fun, sweet, easy going, and freaky as hell. so please tell me what kind of girls do guys look for.
2006-10-26 22:06:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do you know that no guys are interested? Alot of blokes are scared of pretty women - scared of rejection. Just because they don't come flocking to you doesn't mean they don't find you attractive. x
2006-10-26 22:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you're pretty into yourself which is a good thing unless you go too far with it. Perhaps it's your attitude that is turning the fellas away. If men are telling you that you are pretty all the time, then why haven't you hooked up with one of them? You must be reacting to it in a way that they don't understand or like. If there are so many telling you this but you haven't found one of them that you like, perhaps your standards are too high. There's nothing wrong with your looks from your description & believe me, men dig all different types of body shapes, so it has to be something else.
2006-10-26 22:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by how you describe yourself and how guys react to you it sounds like you're confusing being sexy and sexual with being the most appealing thing for a guy in a girlfriend. When it's not. Girls who put that out as a first impression tend to be the ones guys talk to when they want sex only. And they tend to lie and sweet talk as much as needed to obtain it. Or maybe you come off as thinking you're better than them.
Someone above said maybe your standards are too high and that's silly. Don't settle just to be with someone. You'll end up resenting them for it because you are stuck in a relationship with a guy you don't really like.
2006-10-26 22:29:14 · answer #3 · answered by Ericka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill...no need to get all self conscious. Just keep being the pretty girl you are and be patient. Love will come unexpectedly. Let the butterfly land on you at his own pace. If you chase him with a net he'll try to escape, you'll only end up catching the unwanted if you don't be patient. It's not all about looks, please remember that. Keep your mind pretty and it will enhance that glow around you. It's the aura that attracts a man or woman, my dear.
2006-10-26 22:13:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are still young. Focus on bettering yourself and your future and stop focusing on a man and trying to get one. Trust me! You are beautiful but you don't need a man to tell you so. If out of 100 men only 2 said you were cute would you think you were ugly? Find love within first and the man will come when you are truly ready. Don't focus on these men honey, because they aren't worth it. He will come, I promise but feel good about you without a man! Just friendly advice.
2006-10-26 22:11:19 · answer #5 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, all guys look girl who has 5 things in it
1)Sweet
2)careing
3)charming
4)Hav a Big Heart
5)Lovely Nature
Model types women is just for attrection
Wish u All the best
2006-10-26 22:18:00 · answer #6 · answered by Well Wisher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everybody is looking for a model girlfriend, most of the guys are interested in girl possessing model look with understanding and caring atitude, i can't be ur dream man but i u are looking for some one to share talks with i m here to listen u and reply u...
Good luck honey...
2006-10-26 22:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by this boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know. you sound gorgeous to me. maybe its the way you talk to them, making them think they dont have a chance with you. guys can be intimidated by hot girls and if she thinks shes too good for us(our persection) we back off. i know i can be at times. but all is not lost. try letting guys know your interested or even make the first move see what happens. unless your standards are too high, you should have a boyfriend in no time. if you lived in Brisbane, Australia i would go out with you in a heart beat. so i wish you luck in your hunt:)
2006-10-26 22:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every guy wants a model and by your measurements you sound just fine..
Maybe you aren't looking in the right places or maybe you're body language gives off a bad vibe.
Thats all i can figure..
2006-10-26 22:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stereotypical answer that doesnt help while us adult males attempt say we arnt each and all the comparable. Dont sell off her in simple terms cuz she isnt a variety style, variety kinds are in many circumstances boring, they stay like princesses of their international and care greater for his or her ego and social image than respiration.
2016-10-16 11:13:39 · answer #10 · answered by shea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋