I am getting pretty fed up with my b-friend i just can't seem to get it, But i am either gonna stay or find another way to cope with it but really its not comfortable for me right now dealing with some one who is not real, I don't know how to take someone serious when i don't even believe them.
2006-10-26 21:17:18 · 15 answers · asked by La Guera 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why is it that some women post these same, monotonous, generalised questions?
If I was your fella and had to put up with you, I'd lie and say I was cheating, just to see the end of you.
2006-10-26 21:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes they think we are dumb especially when they are lying to us. To me it is a huge insult when lie because they are thinking me/we are to stupid to know better. Why waste your time in a relationship with no trust? Always wondering whether or not he is telling the truth. He obviously doesn't have the same respect for you. Dump the lying fool and find someone who is worthy of you.
2006-10-27 04:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just dont get that we can see through those stupids lie...
you should just sit him down, tell him what you think, see what he says and if he think he can stop it then give him time....
But if he acts like a jerk then dump his *** becoz no one wants some one who isnt comfortable in their own skin that everything has to be a lie...
2006-10-27 04:26:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out now! my ex was /is a compulsive liar what color is the moon? pink whatever he lied. It only gets worse and not only do they think you are dumb but he will cheat, steal etc.. there is no end to that kind of dishonesty if you stay don't say I did not tell you so. you deserve way better than a liar
2006-10-27 04:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by snaggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all of em. in your case ask him you need more communication failing which he runs the risk of losing you. Dont fight but make your point clear. most men lose out on the emootional front ,they aint as verbal and expressive as women. so the best stratgy is to be independent of them and assert your needs in a less messed up way so they can see your point just like they can see their boss's at the office.
2006-10-27 04:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by fleur 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men lie, sounds like you need to let go of that little rascal. You deserve better than that don't you?
If he chooses to dishonest to yo, he's not the one!!
He'll keep lying as long as you listen to it!
good Luck!
2006-10-27 04:21:46 · answer #6 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes a guy.......almost always a guy lies about dumb things cause we dont want to hurt a womans feelings, and we just keep digging ourselves deeper and deeper! one day he will realize its better to tell the truth and hurt you instead of hiding the truth! cause it always seems to come out, wether you find out from someone else or the guilt gets too strong! i know it doesnt help, but on all of the guys behalf, im sorry that we lie!
2006-10-27 04:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by zack s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2006-10-27 04:20:12 · answer #8 · answered by candida S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey:
Its not only guys that lie we lie alot too!
Anyways if you are unhappy then do what makes you happy! Saddness is unhealthy!Its your life!Enjoy!
Goodluck
Sanam
2006-10-27 04:25:25 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually men do think that they can lie and get away...but, its not that men do it 4 a purpose...they just like 2 boast about themselves....and present a larger then life picture of themselves.....
2006-10-27 04:24:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋