a lad i was seeing has said its over just because i wasnt ready to sleep with him (ive only met up with him twice). Are all men this impatient?
2006-10-26 20:58:13 · 41 answers · asked by Unhinged.... 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hahaha.we've got the same problem deary. One guy from my past dumped me coz im not ready to have sex with him that time. You know, you dont deserve him, i believe there's someone out there who would treat you as a fine lady or atleast as a human being. You have the right to say NO coz that's your body and you should give all care to yourself than to him whom you've just met. You deserve more girl!
in short, dont go out with a jerk. :D
2006-10-26 21:03:38 · answer #1 · answered by Lek V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the circumstances. The ones that may not necessarily lead to the end of a relationship may include doctor's advice to stay off sex for some time, temporary bad mood due to a sad occurrence, getting married to somebody else soon, already married to someone else, some STDs including AIDS, new-found religious belief against fornication. If any of these circumstances hold, and you carefully and lovingly explain to him, your friendship/relationship will most likely remain intact.
However, if your decision is based on flimsy excuses or verifiable lies, the relationship may come to an end, since this may be viewed by your man as a rejection of him owing to a loss of interest by you.
If you started on an amorous note at the beginning, you can't turn it into a platonic relationship unilaterally.
PS: Sorry, I misinterpreted your saying that you had met with him twice to mean doing it with him on two occasions before! The opinion given above was based on that thinking.
2006-10-26 21:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by peaceman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationship should not be based on sex alone. Although sex is an important element of a successful relationship but there are other factors like knowing each well, what each other want, like/dislike, finding out if you are compatible/ if they want the same things etc So in my own opinion, lack of sex should not be the end of a relationship. If there is a lack of sex then it if better to sit each other down then talk about it.
2006-10-26 21:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by adewunmi o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are all this impatient there are just the few jerks and when a guy is pressuring you for sex that much you got to know what he is after. Lack of sex shouldn't be the end of the relationship because you shouldn't base your relationship on sex. I think that you guys move too fast into the bedroom sex is sacred don't abuse it.
2006-10-26 21:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
no all we arent all that impatient. I was in the opposite situation where my girlfriend wanted to have sex alot sooner than i did. Its all about trust and respect for one another. you'll know when your ready and if your boyfriend is really there for the long run then he'll understand and not want to rush you.
Youve only met up with him twice you say. Thats really soon to be thinking about sex by anyones standards
2006-10-26 21:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by darkmowson1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go he's not worth your time! No not all men are this impatient only the ones who are only after sex. You are worth so much more than this so wait for the right guy who won't be impatient and will think you are a treasure worth waiting for.
2006-10-26 22:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by ann m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, they're not. The expectation of sex on first or second date has increased. Generally I think people expect everything to happen more quickly these days. But unless both people involved in the relationship feel the same way, then there's no way that you should feel obligated to put out so early. If he can't respect you and continue to be with you without sex at this early stage, then get rid of him.
2006-10-26 21:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by Rocco G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There wasnt a relationship anyway if you have only met him twice! A relationship is when two people get to know each other, and care about each other.
2006-10-26 21:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by Caroline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think men can be impatient but most (i hope) wouldn't just dump you have 2 dates! Thank God he is gone girl!
2006-10-26 22:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by emwatts1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way..sod him and move on .. you will know when you are ready for sex with a new partner..your body tells you..any lad..wanting sex so soon will have no respect for you after you give into him..so.. been there done that.sod him off..
2006-10-26 23:25:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋