Its getting to that point in the relationship. I`ve had many chances before and a handful of drunken adventures where I have wokeup next to a girl but we where both to drunk to have done anything.
I think I have found the right girl, and honesty is the best policy is`nt it? what would you pretty ladies think if someone told you they where a 23 year old virgin?
any helps appreciated.
2006-10-26 20:43:53 · 14 answers · asked by One_Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just bone her vagina and be done with it.
You are twenty-three and you have no excuse for abstinence.
2006-10-28 06:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by me8md 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I have a couple of minor construct issues with this.
One: You are assuming that there is something wrong with the fact that you are a virgin. You need too lay too the slap locker and draw three slaps for this error. More on this in a bit.
Two: Tieing your virginity too your age suggests that there is a standard age actually means something. Off you go too the slap locker! That's three more slaps!
Three: "Honesty is the best policy". That's three more slaps out of the slap locker for you! Not for the policy but for envoking the cliche.
Ok... Jokes set aside.
First... virginity isn't a desiease. It's just one state of being. If you accept shame for being a virgin then you should also accept shame for being male and having opposible thumbs. It really is ***that*** kind of a non issue.
Next? Well... next is very easy. Let nature work it's course. You and your girl freind were preprogramed before either of you were even conseived too be equipt for the act of sex. Don't push it. Don't sweat it. Let it happen if it happens. She'll let you know when it's time to tumble.
What can you do too prepare your self for this? Well... pretty much your first ride around the marry-go-round is going too be all kinds of "Oooo! Look at that!" and "Ooops! Slippery spot!" Confusion and new stuff at every turn! IT'S CHAOS I TELLS YA! TOTAL CHAOS! Don't panic. Let it all happen and remember too breath. Most embarasing thing you could ***possibly*** do at that point in your life is pass out because you just simply forgot too breath. Read a bit on the technical aspects of sex. Learn a bit about what all the parts are, what they do, and where they are located. Lastly... just go slow and remember too smile. Once this moment passes for you it will be gone forever.
Now! I shall answer your question! HA! You didn't think I was going too get too that did you? Did you!?
I would say a qualified 'yes'. If it comes up in conversation ***do*** admit that your experiance in this endevore is quite limited and that "matter of fact I haven't actually gotten around too sealing the deal."
Inviting her out too dinner in a snazzy resteraunt too "discuss something important" and then turning to her all mushy like and saying "Wendy, I love you. But there is something you need too know about me. I'm a vergin." Is ***not*** the way too go.
That would be both silly and off putting. "Wendy. I love you. There is something that you must no about me before we go any further with our relationship. I have a peinis." I'm sure her reaction too that would be about the same.
Point is this. Dun freak. There is nothing wrong with you.
Hope this helps.
2006-10-26 21:06:42 · answer #2 · answered by refresherdownunder 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww that would probably be the most sweetes thing to hear. Imagen having a good relationship with a virgin. Specially if you both are. There is nothing wrong with telling her, I don't think she'll slap you or someting. Have faith, trust me, it's a wonderful new to hear.
It may even make your girlfriend feel happier and joyful or proud to have certain relationship with a 23 old virgin. It let's them know that you are a clean pure guy. That's what I atleast think.
Good luck =D
2006-10-26 21:31:39 · answer #3 · answered by Myself 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The virgin part wouldn't bother me. The telling would! It's like asking if you can kiss someone. Too much talk, not enough action. You know what? When the moment comes, you'll know what to do! (Maybe she's a virgin, too. Ever thought about that? Imagine! When you two are together in bed, the only thing you'll be thinking about is each other! -- No STD's either. What's the world coming to? grin)
2006-10-26 20:49:22 · answer #4 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your girl. If she is sweet and doesn't have much experience on her own, than tell her and it will make it pleasureable. If she is experienced, she most likely laugh at you or thing you some weird dude. I was in kind of the same situation and I didn't say anything. It turned out to be good and she never noticed. just don't play dumb. Study her and know how to touch her right and she will never notice. Another thing of advice, when you do it the first time, do it in the dark. That way you have an excuse if you miss. Or wait for her to tell her that she wants you and than take her hand, put it on your penis and make her do the work.
2006-10-26 20:51:52 · answer #5 · answered by milestoneqanda 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this relationship is important to you, then you should discuss anything and everything that you like, hate, bothers you, or is just important to you for some reason.
2006-10-26 20:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by TK-421 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt matter... at least you were honest.. virginity is not the real issue..its the emotions that matters most=)
<3
2006-10-26 20:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by ehl_a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virginity is sexy. Just try to be sober when you do it.
2006-10-27 19:42:00 · answer #8 · answered by ss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do , it will likely lead to a simpathy ****. What do you have to loose?
2006-10-26 20:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by daddyspanksalot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww, i think it'd be really sweet to hear that.
2006-10-26 20:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by orange_n_lime 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋