I was not able to concentrate on the conversation, and since it was about something he doesn't like, I told him not to worry and we can talk tomorrow. But I need someone to talk about that thing, than i phoned him and he said he is not interested in know what it is and today he didn't call me. We love each other a lot, but it hurts when he ignore my problems. What should I do?
2006-10-26 20:11:31 · 15 answers · asked by Jerome 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try on e last tiem to have a serious conversation with him, if he blatantly ignores youthis time, leave him, it will hurt, but there is someone better for you out there, someone who will talk to you.
2006-10-26 20:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What was the bad thing you found? It would help if you gave more information. What I can say is that a lot of boys/men don't generally like to discuss things they feel uncomfortable with so maybe speak to a friend, relative or someone you can confide in. It doesn't mean that he doesn't love you, everyone has their weaknesses and maybe this is his. Just don't hound him about it or it may cause problems between you. Good luck.
2006-10-26 20:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doesn't sound like he loves u that much. Tell him how important this thing is 2 u and remind him how u always listen 2 his problems. If he still doesn't wanna listen then tell him 2 p.i.s.s off!
2006-10-26 20:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by fat_arse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-26 21:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by candida S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you answer the question that he loves you alot so turn the table around if he wanted to talk to you about something you didnt like and you told him you werent interested how do you think he would feel
2006-10-26 20:17:42 · answer #5 · answered by D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he cares he would listen and support you without judging you.
I'd say tell him how much it hurts you when he doesn't listen.
If he still doesn't get the message perhaps you should consider the fact he doesn't love you as much as you love him!
2006-10-26 20:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend should be listening to your problems and trying to help you..dump this loser and find someone decent...I bet if he had a problem he would be round moaning to you about it.
2006-10-27 08:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady you have given him the polite way of saying goodbye.
Men don't hang around for an explanation or details.
He probably thinks you have infected him too.
2006-10-26 20:27:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How do you expect him to help you with your problems if you dont tell him what they are!!You need to talk to him properly if you want him to understand whats upsetting you!! x
2006-10-26 21:18:59 · answer #9 · answered by jo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you give mixed message and he thinks you are playing games. learn to tell the truth and face your problems no matter what. it's never convenient but it has to be addressed.
2006-10-26 20:18:44 · answer #10 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋