Im am 17 and i am dating a 21 year old and we have been together for 2 years and in January we will be moving into his flat with just the 2 of us. i love him very much but does it make me look like a tart????
2006-10-26 19:52:53 · 13 answers · asked by sammy D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A tart come on, it's not like you been sleeping with every man in the town nor or slept with him within minutes or meeting him....
It's nice to know that people wait and get to know each other before committing to living together... This'll be your test to find out whether or nor you like to be with each other on a day to day basis that you love each other not matter what....
A TART is someone that you're not
Good luck and have a good move enjoy your time together and have fun....
Stop worrying your no tart.... As long as you're happy in your relationship with each other that's all that matters.... Doesn't mean you're going to marry the guy, just take precautions and take it easy....
2006-10-26 20:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , but your only 17 and why would you want to tie yourself down at such an early age, I think I'd go to college, and live in the dorm,,, still date him if you wish but when you graduate you will be much more educated and have a clue on where you want your life going, If he is still around then there is a good chance you will have a long marriage, If he isn't then you'll have a good education and good job prospects and a world full of guys to pick from,,,
Most of us at 17 confuse love with lust we just don't know any better, we are new at this so it seems stronger that it is I look back on all of the high school loves and marriages in my class and out of probably 25 couples that married or lived together soon after graduation from High school , only one survived more than 8 years. out of the 12 or so College classmates that I knew got married or lived together after graduation 9 lasted more than 6 years and 7 lasted more than 10. don't be in a hurry to give up your freedom take some time and get to know yourself
2006-10-27 03:13:45 · answer #2 · answered by S h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..i have been married since I was 16, and I just turned 35, so if you indeed love each other, move into the flat!! You will not look like a tart!
2006-10-27 02:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by DONNA'S NIGHTMARE COME TRUE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be worrying about what people think of you but are you both ready for the responsibilities of being on your own. Household chores, cleaning, cooking, ect.
It is a big step forward in a relationship to be living together. But if you are ready to face the responsibilities & consequences, go knock yourself out with a whole new world.
2006-10-27 03:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by Rin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I think it is wise to live with someone before committing to marriage. When you live with someone in a committed relationship you are able to learn so much more about them. You see them day in & day out. You learn there rituals, idiosyncrasies (sp?), habits (good & bad). This will help you to see if you are able to live with these things BEFORE you get married & find that there are things you are finding out for the first time & they drive you absolutely crazy. You can either decided to love the person, warts & all or you can decide that there is NO WAY you can stand it another minute!!!
2006-10-27 03:02:43 · answer #5 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing the matter with you moving in with him...your 17...you've learned pretty much all you're going to from living w/ parentals. There is nothing the matter with you moving in with him...as long as you don't have to put any future plans on hold to do so and as long as it is a healthy relationship.
2006-10-27 02:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by vickygrrl05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 17 aswell and understand what you mean. Who cares what other people think, do what you think is right. Maybe wait until you are 18. that will make it better.
2006-10-27 02:55:18 · answer #7 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it. i am 18 and live with my man and we have a child but now i still love him but i need a new guy to have sex with and i would love to go back times when i used to go to school and have fun with my friends. but now i have a daughter and i am stuck with this guy. DONT DO IT
2006-10-27 03:05:38 · answer #8 · answered by livetolearn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age doesn't matter that much, if you'll be 18 by the time you move in with him it won't matter even more. Just don't get hurt.
2006-10-27 02:58:57 · answer #9 · answered by Desert Rat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are already in the computer age. "moving-in" is already acceptable in our society. If you love each other, then do whatever both of you think will make your relationship stronger. life is short, enjoy every moment of it.
2006-10-27 02:59:35 · answer #10 · answered by lette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋