When you have a really awkward first meeting with a guy after introducing yourself, awkward from the greeting, to the eye contact to the exit, and then you both seem to be off in saying hi to one another while the other isnt looking, how do you recover the situation. Should I go up to him and try to talk to him again as the non-uncomfortable me that I truly know I can be? Or should I just let it go since its been wierd already for like a week?
2006-10-26 19:49:02 · 5 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you didn't mention if you even like this guy. But, going on the guess that you do like this guy- I say- go for it! Talk to him again. There could be a hundred akward moments, but learn to laugh them off. The akwardness could be due to nerves -yours and his- so you don't know what could happen if you don't try. A way to recover is to perhaps, send him a note- asking to meet at a certain time and place where you could have more of a chance to keep things under control. Nothing like asking him out on a date right away, but something like- "Hey, lets meet for coffee over at such and such place- I'd like to talk to you." Something like that.
2006-10-26 20:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by Xady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it started weird, that is not a good sign. It seems as though you are not compatible with this guy and that's why it feels awkward because you are forcing a conversation to flow. Move on to someone that you can have great conversation with.
2006-10-27 02:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason the situation is weird is because you need to be yourself. Go talk to him!! And be yourself.
2006-10-27 02:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by sturdblu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to him. Be yourself. He's probablly feeling the same way.
2006-10-27 02:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by hp one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think..just let it go..if it's meant to be, u'll meet again..hopefully unakwardly..
2006-10-27 02:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by LadyN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋