Details . . um . . . i am short. i seem to attract losers. i've been told that i am very sweet and have a great personality by a ton of people but i still have no luck in the guy department. i'm thinking that it is my physical appearance. i am short, athletic (hence i have a small chest). from your perspective, do you think i am just not someone you would want to date? and girls, what do you think?
2006-10-26 19:43:05 · 23 answers · asked by Jugglingmidget06 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 6'3" and my wife is 5 feet tall. We met in high school and though there is a huge height difference I could care less. My connection with her has nothing to do with her physical appearance. So don't worry the right guy will come along based on your personality and will probably see your height as a plus in the beauty area.
2006-10-26 19:46:59 · answer #1 · answered by princeamirdav 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Omg...
I looove being short.
I'm 5'1"
and i've always always been attracted to really tall guys. I mean tall. In fact the shortest guy i've dated was 5'10" and i've only dated like 5 guys. My bf now is 6'2" we've been together for almost a year now. And all the guys i've dated said they think 'little' girls are just adorable. In fact most of them only date little girls. That's just what they are attracted to. I love being small. And none of the guys i dated were losers. They were all tall dark and handsome... lol. Maybe some of them were douches but whatever... they were still dead sexy. I dont see why you would have a problem. oh and btw. I'm small chested too... and you dont have to worry about that. i dont. the way i look at it is i'm a small person. my chest is small. I'm proportioned right. I dont want to be top heavy. and i've asked my friends too if my chest was too small. and i know they're my friends and they'll say nice things but they told me i looked fine and that nobody would even think about it because i just look proportioned. So i think you have a chance... maybe you are just running into losers. but hey i've had my fair share... just keep moving and dont waste your time with guys like that. Oh and i really believe that when your out there on the prowl [as in you really want a bf] then you probably wont find anybody. I think that you just have to let that kinda stuff happen on its own and you'll find a good guy that you were meant to meet.
2006-10-26 19:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by Beans 2 · 10⤊ 0⤋
If you believe you're beautiful, so will others. Don't settle when looking for a beau, you're worth the total package. There is true love out there for the vertically challenged, though. Case in point: Gospel Artist, Kirk Franklin in 5'3" and his wife Tammy is 5'0. They have been happily married for 10 years and best friends for longer than that. By the way, they are on the cover of Ebony Magazine this month. Keep you head up and be encouraged. Mr.Right is probably waiting in the wings, nervous that HE'S not good enough for YOU!
2006-10-26 19:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
honey I'm 4"10! at one time in my teen years I got 5 suitors- all not less than 5"8. 2 were professionals & the other 3 were campus celebrities. Now i'm married to an engineer who is 5"9. You have all the chances & opportunities as those with the taller girls.
2006-10-26 19:54:51 · answer #4 · answered by lette 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Remember this- for anything you have there is pretty much for sure someone who finds it attractive. I personally like really short girls like you. I find anything over 5'4'' ish way too tall. Girls your height are almost automatically attractive. I also don't like large breasts. A lot of tall guys like short girls, if that makes you feel any better. Guy's that are in the 6's like me very often go for short girls, so don't worry. Just be patient.
2006-10-26 20:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by fslcaptain737 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so hard on yourself!! I have had so many friends that had a very large difference in height, and they love eaachother so very much, if fact my very best friend since Kindergarten is 4'10, and has been so happily married with four children, and her husband is 6'8! her two sons are 6'7, so there you go, you just have not met the right guy, your day will come sweetie!!
2006-10-26 19:52:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
lol you silly girl. I used to be friends with a girl who was like 5,3 and im 5'10 im vain to an extent and i thought i had a good chance as she was normal looking and i have nice tanned skin and green eyes. but anyway she attracted all the guys i liked and i attracted the losers. its not really the look its your smile, eyes personality and the feromones. you have just as much chance as anyone else. some guys love short girls. i only date short guys.
2006-10-26 19:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are superficial creeps, but you have to ask yourself, if you're attracting losers, then maybe that's all you think you deserve? You have to be the best you you can be, work hard, study and become something great, have self confidence, and go after the type of man you want. Don't just wait for "any" man to come to you and expect him to make you feel fulfilled and whole. Love yourself, for your accomplishments and goals, and you'll be the most attractive girl in the world.
2006-10-26 19:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 9⤊ 1⤋
maybe you can u have a chance . how much is his height,it should be 5'2 to 5'5 then only that will be fit for you . you can go to some malls ,plazas or center to buy a thing i have seen on tv , u put this thing i in shoe and jog or run daily 500 m after 1 month your height will be 5'1 do it till 3 months and ur height will be 5'6 and thank you
2006-10-26 19:49:13 · answer #9 · answered by DX 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some men may be particular but being short is only bad for some .It is whats in your heart that counts .We have a saying here " we are all the same size lying down"Keep looking he will find you .Have a nice day.
2006-10-26 19:52:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋