We have been dating for 6 months. We get a long perfect, we do anything and everything for each other. He is a little scared of relationship commitment because he wants his career and life straight before he settles down. Im SOOO in love with this man and I know he is too, but im waitng for him to say the three words.... Should I? Or wait who knows long till he gets the guts to say it to me????
2006-10-26 19:24:47 · 11 answers · asked by libbyfridell 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I found that the time to say i love you is when it fills you up inside so much that it is the only thing you can say. Further to that, after a while you realise that í love you' doesnt even cover it because there arent the words to describe how much you feel for that person.
2006-10-26 19:43:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really mean it, it's ok to say. Now, this statement may be true, but doesn't exactly mean it takes away from the curiosity of if it's ok to say to him at this particular time. If you email or talk online or phone eachother, try something like "love ya" when you say goodbye...or if all you do is see each other in person, say it when you say goodbye, it'll kinda start the "i love you" ball rolling, but won't totally creep him out if he's not ready. Then, just see what happens. If he clams up or gets nervous...back off...if he replies something like "uh...or um... or yeah" or something like that you may wanna back off too. If he says it back...do that for a while then change to "i love you". Good luck!
2006-10-27 02:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by michellinie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best time is to say i love you is any time. really i tell you. because i have seen in my life also, we always wait for perfect time and when the time comes the things goes passed. so tell him in a good way, you dont need microphone to explain. just ask him this is my thinking u just take your time we can be friend forever also like this. this will clear your all doubts.
2006-10-27 02:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by GLADIATOR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you feel that is right if you are feeling it right now i would tell him. But then, if he doenst want commitment at looks like he doent feel really feel the same way as u.
Good luck
2006-10-27 02:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say it to him if i were you-- but just do it casually the first time to see his reaction... like if he takes you somewhere you love be all excited and say "aww baby i love it and i love you!" or if he surprises you with something.... laugh with it when you say it, dont make it deep and concerned or it might not go as planned.... good luck i hope it works out for the best whatever you choose
2006-10-27 02:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him exactly how you feel, truth and honesty are the best policies. Just tell him when it feels natural and comfortable and you know he feels comfortable with you saying it. Just let it flow. Good luck and God bless!!
2006-10-27 02:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right time to say it is when you know that you mean it...
2006-10-27 02:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you mean it, from the bottom of your heart, without the shaddow of a doubt, then say it, scream it, sing it, anyway to express it to him you can.
2006-10-27 02:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by irishthunda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should tell his friend that you really want him to say that three words and tell his friend to tell him!! maybe he will know your meaning!!
2006-10-27 02:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by christy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player
2006-10-27 02:28:08 · answer #10 · answered by John Scary 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋