i'm a 20 yr old gal pursuing journalism...... my parents booze.....and i hate the way they behave after that ..........i tried to convince them bt in vain.......i'm facing hell lot of prblms b coz of that ....and i thought of taking them to a psyciart......fr alchoholism treatmentv to bt could nt get any solution .......sometimes my dad even misbehaves with me wen he boozes.....and no one to care bout me......last year once wen he tried to attack me i was in an utter shock and was unconcious fr four dayz wanna come out of this bloody **** house.....bt i'm a gal n looking fr some job plz help!!!!!they dnt want me..........i donno y the hell am i born to these sinful people...... and additional to thois is that they doubt me that m going dating ..........bt seriuosly i'm nt dating anyone getting fed up ya!!and nw my bro has come up with a rumour that i'm dating someone......where i'm a bit spiritual and that kinda gal.....wanna get of of my house bt no financial support frm anyone.....
2006-10-26 19:16:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-26 20:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by whatever 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can honestly say I know exactly what your talking about. I was in pretty much the same situation. My parents started to drink heavily when I was 6, so a lot of the time I had to take care of my little sister. My dad beat me nearly every day for years. I turned 21 this year and finally left home. I would have left sooner but I couldn't afford it. Just know that there are always options open to you. If you leave home you can get unemployment until you can find some work. Have you thought about moving out with friends?
2006-10-26 19:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't you contact a support line, most countries have these type of lines.... Maybe they can help....
Seriously yes you need to get out of the house and enjoy your life and not to be frightened.... I assume your brother is younger? If he is then it might be jealousy as you're thinking of leaving, maybe he's hurting as he knows if you go he's left on his own....
Siblings do and say things hurtful if they're hurting themselves.... You should be supporting each other in this type of situation rather than fighting each other....
Try and talk to your doctor and see what advise they can offer you....
Most companies would be interested in what college courses you got on journalism, if you've not got anything then be prepared that you could be turned down.... As for journalism contact your local newspapers, free ones or national ones, you'll start off at the bottom making coffees and running errands but if you can get your foot in the door it's a start... Inform them you know that you're young but this is your dream and your interests.... Enroll on a course it'll show them that you're serious....
Whatever happens support is out there for you, you just need to seek it... You've made the first step already.... Churches, Social Services, Salvation Army, AA help line so many available to you try them....
Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-26 19:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know where you stay...I mean which country and city. However I suggest you to take some decision immd. Either you stick there and try to change things in your house or get out. Anyway you are major. Getting a job is never difficult only if you are willing to go for it. And remember too, outside world would be as difficult as your own home. So you need to ponder over the issues in detail.
2006-10-26 19:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by Sanju_the_gr8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S CALLED TOUGH LOVE !!!! You need to apply for colleges everywhere where you can live on campus..There are grants out there that can help support you.. That is a terrible situation and you should have filed a police report father or not..If it get's too scary go to a women's shelter.. They are discreet and can help you get on the road to success immediately.. Good Luck ..and please take action you're too young to be dealing with this kind of treatment!!
2006-10-26 19:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by chubbie dumplins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all report your abuse to authority and dont fear anyone.then have your parents enter a rehabilitation centre with the help of those ppl.by authority i mean a organization for women, an ngo or even some charity organization.you can also go to the police but make that your last option.then join a call centre around your area or some common job to earn you daily wages.dont bring in the esteem crap in here.bcoz any job is imp bcoz it helps you to survive.then get youself a scholarship.since you are doin journalism you can also be an apprentice.if you know that you are not datin any1 then dont worry.if your brother is bent on ruining your life then find out why!talk to him bcoz he too might be goin through the same stuff as you are.bring your life pieces back together.life is testing you and you need to be strong.since you are into spirituality you can join the ashrams temporarily.you were born on this earth to live and not to die.and god chose your parents.its not your fault and will never be.just bcoz ur parents failed in their responsibilitydoes not mean that you dont deserve to have a happy life.you are on your own and you have to struggle and survive on your own.if you bring back your life and make yourself strong then your parents will realise their mistakes.your parents have screwed their own life but why should you!you are a strong girl living in the 21st century.this age is an age of oppurtunity.all gr8 folks went through such ordeals in their life and maybe you too are meant for somethin gr8!good luck and ppl will start loving you if you start loving them.make frnds and love them and they will love you back.love still exists in this world and well everyone has someone else for them who loves them!good luck my dear and i speak for my heart that i will pray for you and your well being!
2006-10-26 19:50:56 · answer #6 · answered by s4e 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
remember one thing, not evan a single human in this world can say that i dont have problem, not evan a saint identity. from your point of view. you are the only person who can take care of you and rest also. and it is hard truth that u can experiments on boyfriends also becasue of your situations. the only best way to solve the problem is find out good partner for life who can take care of rest, you are alone its not so easy to manage this things easy. once you get company your problems will be divided into two. two is better than one. be remember dont wash out yourself in feelings without understand anyone, otherwise your problem will be double. after all we are living in selfish world. everybody wants to use everybody.
2006-10-26 19:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by GLADIATOR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out, Move on! Support yourself and don't use your parents as an excuse to fail at everything in life
2006-10-26 19:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by Becky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you might want to check out a women shelter in your area. I know that in my town they are really good at helping women get on their feet. No one deserves to be in a situation like that.
2006-10-26 19:20:47 · answer #9 · answered by Emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick around and try to change things or just get out and go to the a woman shelter for help...good luck....
2006-10-26 19:28:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋