My name is Brad Im 13, and I love my sisters friend..shes 18,Why do you guys think she wont like me back if I tell her? Im more mature for my age.I just wanted to know why I shouldnt tell her,and why she wouldnt like me?
2006-10-26 18:18:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can tell her if you want, but she'll probably laugh at you. Girls of that age aren't interested in thirteen year olds. Can you drive? Can you take her out for a drink? No.
You have nothing in common with an eighteen year old girl. Try and find someone your own age, or wait a few years before telling her how you feel. I wouldn't mind betting that by the time you reach eighteen you'll have forgotten all about this girl, and have had at least a couple of girlfriends by then.
2006-10-26 18:22:43 · answer #1 · answered by Amy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's more likely lust rather than love, first of all. And second, its against the law for anyone 18 and older to "date" anyone younger. Also, coming from a gal's POV here, when I was 18, a 13-yr-old would not even be on my radar and if I found out one had a crush on me, I wouldn't take it seriously. In teenage years, there's a huge difference between 13 and 18.
2006-10-26 18:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by chnchita 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey 13 year old I know what it's like and I read all the answers and you think no one understands you, but hey when I was 13 i had the same crush. the thing is your still in school probaly 8th grade and she is headed to college and the guys are just alot different, they think different, act different and most of all they drive and have no curfew and punishment is non-existent. see so it just won't work, so try finding another 13 year old for right now and later when you turn 18 you studd you- she will be waiting.
2006-10-26 18:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 11:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by winstanley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Several reasons:
She is probably about to go to college, you to high school...Age Gap...
She probably has been your sister's friend for quite a few years now and has watched you grow up...She views you as a brother...
She might already have a boyfriend or be interested in another guy...
Of course, it never hurts to ask...If you truly love her and she doesn't "love" you back, you should respect her decision...She may value your friendship more than a serious relationship
2006-10-26 18:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by vegasbrother99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because..She's in another world compared to you,she has responsibilities and a much more complicated life than a 13 year old boy,Shes a woman and your still a young boy...sorry but its true.Please don't tell her,she might hurt your feeling,I'm just warning you.
2006-10-26 18:43:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are young. You might think your mature. What you could be feeling is a crush. We all had crushes at some point.So if you are mature keep it to yourself and stay focus on school. I am sure there are girls around your age in school or in the neighborhood. Please don't get your feelings hurt.
2006-10-26 18:29:53 · answer #7 · answered by tanve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you are not familiar with the law. She might like you, however you are under the age and she doesn't want to go to jail, because she knows better.
2006-10-26 18:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Becuae you arent in love at 13
2006-10-26 18:19:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't have anything in common. She's dating, thinking about college or a career, and your thinking about middle school and maybe learning to drive one day.
2006-10-26 18:21:58 · answer #10 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋