I know some people who said they would never have kids, and ended up pregnant. Most of them have no problem with abortion, yet for some odd reason or another they chose to have the child. Does anyone out there have any opinion about this?
2006-10-26 18:17:08 · 7 answers · asked by cotncandi 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I was totally anti-parenting until I got pregnant. Not to say that I NEVER wanted children. I just really didn't like them and had no desire to have one. Once I got pregnant, I started to get excited. When I had my baby, my whole life changed. All of the sudden, he was the single most exciting and important person in my life. I don't regret becoming a mother. It's the best thing I ever did.
2006-10-26 18:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by munkees81 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was one of them, yes. I got married pretty early, at my 18. People thought I was pregnant. I got married bcoz I love my hubby very very much, and we were on long distance relationship, I think that's what triggerred me most to get married.I never wanted any children. But I ended up pregnant. And when I saw the tiny seed in my womb.....it sure changed my heart. I wanted this baby, very much. And after a few mnths, when the baby moved, kicked, punched, I grew very fond of it, and eventually, fell in love with my dear baby. I guess..getting pregnant is the most miraculous thing that'll ever happened to a woman.
PS. Pardon me for my bad grammar/ english..
2006-10-26 21:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by qi-li-xiang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the person. i didnt want kids. now i have 7. my first was to a rape. i truely felt in my heart that something good had to come for something so bad. shes 19 now and wonderful!!when you find out your pregnat at least for me, my feelings on having kids changed.not all women are like that. i have friends that do not want kids,and when they ended up pregnat they have ended the pregnancy.i do not feel that is a good form of birth control.its also very hard on the body.feelings about certian things change when a thought becomes real. like not wanting kids.you dont until it happens.
2006-10-26 18:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by kim s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing is saying I don't wanna have children and another thing is being cruel. Many people don't belive in abortion and if they have to live with the kid, then they keep it.
Why critizice these people when they are being good parents! and human.
2006-10-26 18:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of women have babies because they don't want to feel bad or reget it later when they get an abortion. But if you ask me its better to wait then struggle.
2006-10-26 18:22:22 · answer #5 · answered by SIN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually didn't want kids. But when you find out your pregnant, everything changes. I love my little girl to death, but I WON'T be having any more!!!
2006-10-26 18:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by someoneoutthere 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
millions--children abandoned...
2006-10-26 18:24:47 · answer #7 · answered by cork 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋