How woud you react if someone you've been seeing for 6 months on and off asked you if you would want to do some stuff with him on webcam so that he could also get to see some stuff on webcam from people? He said that's if the occasion arises but I think since he asked me, that he did have a offer.
2006-10-26 18:02:54 · 17 answers · asked by hearts99992000 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
More than likely he has either found a web-site that is based on this sort of thing or someone has invited him to swap cam for cam so to speak. In my opinion this shows a lack of future happiness for you and he. If he is in love with you, why would he want the entire world to know your most intimate and innermost secrets. Unless this is something you are into or are excited about, I wouldn't do it just to please him. Remember, you have self respect and self esteem. You have to decide if this is the path you wish to follow.
2006-10-26 18:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by Big "D" 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you. If you don't mind it then go ahead. But don't do it if you feel uncomfortable. Please keep in mind that if he is into voyarism he will always be. This is probably the first step into more deviant behavior such as orgies or "swinging." Another thing is that once something goes online, it will always be there. People can capture video and post it to websites. If you don't want the possibility of that happening, I would make your thoughts known to the guy you are seeing. Good Luck.
2006-10-26 18:07:49 · answer #2 · answered by ~*~Feelin' Froggy~*~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it.... because you have no idea who the viewer is and what this viewer is capable of. There is a lot of people out there that can easily ...possibly....record you without your acknowledgment. I wouldn't even risk trying for any reason. And yes, I think he's been offered.
2006-10-26 18:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by Angel7t9 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT.
First, if he is there for the long haul with you, he wouldn't want other people seeing you on webcam. Second, he wouldn't want to "trade you" for webcam pics of other people.
DON'T DO IT. YOU CAN NEVER UNDO IT IF YOU DO.
2006-10-26 18:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by beccamt2006 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is a pure perversion, my dear, and i m so sorry to state that too.
I would be shocked beyond belief. And wud try to avoid tht pervert and find someone stable minded guy and someone who wud respect me and my privacy.
2006-10-26 18:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously I would say "no thank you" and "bye". I know you wouldn't be flattered by such an offer, you are much too classy for that.
2006-10-26 18:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be upset that they would disrespect me in that way dont do it if you do he will have lots of other guys watching you later on and he will post you on the net after wards to make money if he can even just to show off to other guys personally if you do that you will be disrespecting your self
2006-10-26 18:13:21 · answer #7 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like web cams, and I have one myself, but this guy is using you. Trust me, your naked body will most likely be all over the net if you go through with it.
2006-10-26 18:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmm, that sounds really sketchy to me. He is basically asking you to make some home-made porno with him and he wants to share it with people. I mean if your cool with it then its no problem because it is your business. But if your not then dont do it. And make sure you slap him because he is trying to exploit your image.
2006-10-26 18:06:58 · answer #9 · answered by //// 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course he had an offer. You better check for hidden cameras!
2006-10-26 18:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋