I asked a friend out just because I was tired of the dating scene and wanted to have fun being me, although I think now, it's not as entirely platonic as when I first asked him on my part. Should I pursue him or leave it be?
2006-10-26 17:58:39 · 13 answers · asked by iambic_chatterbox 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you like him then you should pursue it
2006-10-26 18:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda depends if you two are great friends and have been so for a while, i say leave it alone. im currently in a five year relationship with someone who started out as a great friend and were on the verge of breaking up. sometimes i really wish it could have stayed the way it was before we ruined it.
2006-10-27 01:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try an feel him out to see if he might feel the same way as you do. Just take it from there. I think if he feels the same as you. You will start to see some subtle clues. If not then just leave it be. So you don't lose your friend.
2006-10-27 01:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him? If so, pursue him. He could be the one you've been looking for. If he is, that would rescue you from the dating scene!
2006-10-27 01:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by zesty4pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's of course the danger of platonic relationships, they occasionally become more and can complicate things tremendously.
2006-10-27 01:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by Deleted 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he feels the same way you do then persue, if not leave it be. Good friends are hard to find. However, I've been married 32 years to my best friend.
2006-10-27 01:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by Nanatoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention whether he felt that same way about you. Maybe you need to figure this out first otherwise you may ruin a good friendship
2006-10-27 01:00:34 · answer #7 · answered by Kble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its not platonic, why not pursue it.
2006-10-27 01:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plato sayeth, "Pursueth".
2006-10-27 01:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it if he's single if he's not let it go.
2006-10-27 01:01:54 · answer #10 · answered by happy_cute_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋