My friend, a guy, and I have been spending time exclusively with each other for the past three years. We go to basketball games, the movies, and shoot pool. Our times together aren't really "dates" I guess, we just enjoy each other's company. We always have great conversations on the phone and get along wonderfully. He doesn't go out with or date anyone else. I told him a year ago my feelings for him, but he said he didn't have those same feelings. This is fine, but he hasn't dated others only me. I love being his friend and the times we share, but am I crazy to think he's not interested at all? Help!!
2006-10-26 17:56:58 · 8 answers · asked by Dianna S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I assume that there is a spark that your friend has that doesn't quite light your fire. I have never heard of a girl who had a male friend who was so faithful,loyal and devoted. He is happy with only you. How does that make you feel? I think he is interested, but he may be shy when it comes to how he feels about you. You love being his friend and the times you share. I think you love him, but it takes time to come to that and he seems content to be your friend until such time that you either stay with him or let him go. I don't think you want to let him go.
2006-10-26 19:02:18 · answer #1 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are if you are being intimate in the purest of friendship sort of way, meaning this is just casual sex among friends then this means he is interested but afraid to commit. If you aren't having sex at all and he still isn't dating then he is probably gay and using you for a cover to keep his secret in the closet. There are numerous reasons that could be hidden deeply within his thoughts. If you want him, then you will just have to continue to be patient and see where it goes. On the other hand, if he doesn't feel that way for you then perhaps its time for you to pursue someone that does feel the same for you as you would for him.
2006-10-26 18:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by Big "D" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never heard of this before and it's hard to take you seriously. If he doesn't have those feelings, have you asked whether he ever wants to marry and why he wants to spend time with you. Also, how do you know he doesn't date someone else?
If he only wants to be your friend, it is strange he isn't talking to you about whether you want to see other guys. I would probably be asking you all about what you want in a guy and encourage you not to stay away from other guys because of me. Hmm, are you an old widow who can no longer have children or something?
2006-10-26 18:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a very close friendship, come right out and ask him......all you can do is tell him how you feel and ask if there is a chance that he could feel the same.... You have to be ready if you don't get the answer you want to hear....will you be happy to remain just friends with this guy if he doesn't want what you want.....
2006-10-26 18:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by Midnight Runner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he interested on a 1-10 scale 5
2006-10-26 17:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes you but just as a friend, he enjoys being with you but the idea of being your bf maybe didn't cross his mind as yet maybe later he will have the same feelings as you and maybe not so the better way is not to stress out yourself over that and continue being his best friend.
2006-10-26 18:05:39 · answer #6 · answered by crazykarma_y2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be he is gay and trying to fight it
2006-10-26 18:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes gay
2006-10-26 17:59:54 · answer #8 · answered by shewontletmefunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋