I've been sitting here crying for an hour and I can't stop. I'm home alone with just my kitty. My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago. I've been fine for a long while and then all of a sudden the tears just won't stop!!! I hurt so bad and my heart feels so broken.......it's so overwhelming and I don't know what to do. I just seriously can't stop!!!! please help me.
2006-10-26 17:36:35 · 16 answers · asked by becca 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you have to cry, and cry and cry, don`t be so bad. crying can help you to forget your boyfriend. i understand perfect i am in the same problem. i broke up with my boyfriend15 days ago. sorry i would like to help and say you some advices but my English is very bad, don`t worry and still crying, you will be fine. good luck.
2006-10-26 19:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can totally relate to how you're feeling. I was hurting the same way couple years back when I broke up with an ex. It's an awful feeling which you can't describe with words. My best advice to you is that try to preoccupy yourself with something that won't remind you of him. I found that keeping myself busy helps me deal with pain. Also, I would suggest doing things which you enjoy doing like your hobbies. The pain will only go away with time. So sooner or later, you will move on with your life. Meanwhile, stay focused or busy with other things. Good luck and best wishes.........
2006-10-27 00:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by * TeXaS cHiCk * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this hurts and this will take time to heal. Nothing and i mean nothing hurts worse than a broken heart. It will go away i garrantee. Right now it looks like the pain will never go away. But be strong. The right one will come along and you will be fine. Prayer always helped me get through times like that.
2006-10-27 00:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by valerie s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure your heart is broken...someone you thought loved you left you behind..and you probably feel like he violated you and your love for him......having a broken heart is real and it take time to get over it...just take each day as it comes and try to keep yourself busy so you don't have to much time to let your mind wander. But remember it does take time but sooner or later, the hurt will go a way.....
2006-10-27 00:40:38 · answer #4 · answered by ariermagee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IM SORRY THAT YOU FEEL SO SAD. BUT YOU NEED TO
START LIVING YOUR LIFE, I KNOW THAT IT FEEL LIKE THE
WORLD IS CRAZY BECAUSE OF HOW YOU FELT ABOUT
THIS PERSON. BUT SITTING AROUND CRYING WILL NOT DO
MUCH BUT MAKE YOU FEEL EVEN SADDER. TIME TO START
LIVING AGAIN.. GO OUT WITH FRIENDS.. START DOING THINGS THAT WILL KEEP YOU FROM THINKING ABOUT HIM.
JUST TAKE IT ONE DAY AT TIME.. IT WILL GET BETTER
AS TIME GO ON. AND YOU WILL SEE THAT LIFE IS
WONDEFUL AGAIN. AND YOU WILL SEE THAT YOUR
HEART IS HEALING BUT YOU WILL NOT SEE ANY THING
UNTIL YOU START. TAKE BABY STEPS. IT WILL GET
EASIER.THERE IS A RAINBOW WITH YOUR NAME ON
SO DONT GIVE UP. YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE THAT
WILL GIVE YOU EVERYTHING YOU WANT. GOOD LUCK.
2006-10-27 00:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 points
2006-10-27 00:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by CINDY R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
through away everything of his that he gave you. then think about all the bad stuff he did. if you can't do this have a few friends over or talk to them on the phone to get him off ur mind. that guy doesn't deserve you. good luck on getting over him.
2006-10-27 00:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by HANNAH S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts it will soon ease time will heal try to pick up a hobby get your mind off of it..
2006-10-27 00:38:34 · answer #8 · answered by DOOEY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im really sorry becca we have all been there, time heals everything. i know thats not very comforting but remember this....noone is worth your tears and the one who is wont make you cry. good luck
2006-10-27 00:38:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear first of all dont get so much emotional.in this modern world those with high emtions are considered to be fools. you have very long lovely life so find new way to enjoy life. i can understand your feelings,dont think that i am heartless, but u have to be practical in life.
2006-10-27 00:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋