I'm 21 and a single dad. Got a lovely 2 year old daughter and never dated again after splitting with ex...Is there any hope for me?
2006-10-26 17:32:13 · 22 answers · asked by Hacker 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go to the supermarket {with your daughter} and let everyone know your single, you,ll be swamped. oh ! and buy lots of healthy food and wine. good luck!!
2006-10-26 19:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, your still young. And it's nice to hear your daughter is lovely. By that attitude alone, it will get you going in the right direction. I ended a relationship once, not because he had a child, but because he was a dead beat Dad, had a daughter from a previous relationship, he didn't care to know. That showed me what kind of person he was and would be. So just get out there and meet people, do right by your daughter and things will fall into place. When I met my Mr.right, he said he had almost given up, and along I came..
2006-10-27 00:48:04 · answer #2 · answered by Aces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah there is hope. It will happen. Please be patient
Place to have love find you. You're in a better place if you allow love to find you versus you looking for it.
1) Church
2) Grocery Store
3) Become a member of a club or a group that has interests that you like. Example: book club, jogging club, rock climbing club, toast masters, etc
4) Ask older adults (prefaably those 50 and up) if they know of any nice girls they can introduce you to
5) Have your married friends (if you have any) set you up with their single friends
6) Be active in your community and volunteer- you will definately meet either single women or people that can introduce you to single women.
7) Go on outings by yourself- restaurants, museums, movies, theatre, concerts, parties, etc....
stay away from bar and club scene. 1 in a million chance you will find anything of substance.
2006-10-27 00:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by m_harvery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definatly. you will find that person....your still young and you have a lot of responsibility for a 21 yr old. eventualy things will balance out and you will be able to get out more if you dont get out that much already. but whatever you do, make sure that when you do decide to start dating or start a relationship that may progress into something long term that the girl will accept both you and your daughter and will be able to deal with all the different situations dating a guy with a child comes into contact with. if it scares her, then she isnt right.
2006-10-27 00:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would love a single dad to start a life with i am eager for a husband the way i feel it is i want that one companion that GOD has for me i was told by my pastor iam being made into a perfect wife by GOD right now and somewhere GOD is makeing me the perfect husband and when all is said and done we will meet and till then i jest pray for me to be ok with being alone and i pray GOD pickes me a husband and brings him to me fast jest be the best father you can be and see if your daughter can really handle a step mom and id try and not have more children specially if it hurt your daughter she should be number one in your life and not suffer anymore than she alredy has.
2006-10-27 00:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by polkahaunis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did find the right girl. It's your 2 year old. Worry about taking care of her. Your life doesn't matter now that you've had a kid. It sounds harsh, but it's true.
2006-10-27 00:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by yblur 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow. Young dad.. your life will be tough...Wish you luck, and yes you will find a right woman (no more girl) in the future. it's just the matter of time.
2006-10-27 00:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by itguru5354 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is she's standing on a street corner under a red light!
2006-10-27 03:48:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,be patient.I was a single mum and found love again.It comes along when you least expect it.
2006-10-27 00:50:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE WILL ALWAYS B HOPE 4 U AND U WILL FIND A GIRL
2006-10-27 03:19:12 · answer #10 · answered by Sexi B..i.t.c.h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋