i am 19 and i have never had a real girlfriend. girls always tell me i am such a nice guy. every girl i have ever been interested in, likes me as a friend. they call me for advice or when they are sad. i can usually cheer them up. i have a good sense of humor. i am smart, but girls seem to avoid me like the plague. how can i get a girlfriend
2006-10-26 17:25:22 · 12 answers · asked by Trayne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man up...I don't know if this is the case, but you're coming off a bit soft.
Let a girl you're interested in know your intentions from the beginning, otherwise you're setting yourself up to be made into the 'friend.'
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2016-05-17 03:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your first mistake is treating a girl you like as a friend. you have to let them know from the start that you are interested. never try to become friends with them first. also, dont wear you heart on your sleave, and dont bend over backwards to make a girl happy. she will see you as a pushover. and you cant just go out and say you are looking fro a girlfriend. you cant plan these kinda things. on the nice thing, tone down on the things i mentioned earlier.
2006-10-26 17:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Stop being SUCH a nice guy. Girls really want a guy that is nice to them... but still kind of a dick. Not a big jerk, just a little. Like, lots of sarcasm. Don't let the girls think they are on a pedastaile. Act normal, be yourself, be funny like you say you are. But kinda treat them a little bit like they are insignificant to you... and you'll see a difference. It sounds mean, but it's the god's honest truth.
Girls want to DO the chasing, not BE chased.
2006-10-26 17:29:49 · answer #6 · answered by Steven S 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋
So nice of you to advice others and cheer them up but some time girls was afraid of this. They feel that they will not be protected by this kind of man.Lady always went his man to be strong gentleman like Tom C. So act like one if you want to find your partner.
2006-10-26 17:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by Cindy L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was confronted to the same problem. i was the one they call when they are in trouble but i was good enough to go out with them. I just sticked to my personality, and i finally hooked up with a nice girl who was caring to me. Guess what, all of the other girls finally wanted to go out with, finding me attractive. Be who you are. There is probably a nice girl who likes you but just can't tell you. Find her. Good luck.
2006-10-26 17:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by Zolex1981 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this is going to sound frustrating, but you havent found a girl worthy enough for your heart. Stop looking and love will find you and it will be worth the wait. The girl of your dreams wants to find you. I know it seems like you will always be single, but you deserve the best so the best is waiting for you to be ready and then she will just appear out of no where. I used to feel the same way and so I've stopped looking and now I am focusing more on work and getting my life on track. You should take up something that intrests you such as maybe cars or sports or computers to occupy your time, you will realize it will happen in no time. If you ever want to talk feel free to email me anytime.
2006-10-26 17:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by ~MandiNic~ 2 · 6⤊ 4⤋
Mmm, maybe you are not dare enough....
you can use sms to message people and ask them if they
want to be your gf?
Or you can go to this webside:
http://www.habbo.com (must be your country one)
you can find a gf easily from there....
make sure it's the web is from your country if not you two
will never met.....
Hope i help....^^
find a gf soon..
wish you all the best........
2006-10-26 17:32:07 · answer #10 · answered by Vengence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋