i jus cant forget my ex gal friend .i jus cant say goodbye to her ,love is such a big illusion i cant forget .she was da one who set it up and she was da one who made it stop.i jus cant forget the way she kisses .theres allways something about her left in my head .I WANNA LET GO OF HER BUT I CANT ,BOTH OF US R SEPERATED BECOS OF OUR OWN EGOS .SUGGESTIONS PLZ
2006-10-26 17:19:58 · 25 answers · asked by (omplExity _|_ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
join the club, she will stick in your heart for the rest of your life so you better get used to it. instead of trying to deny it, embrace it with all your heart. look at it like "better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all." you have loved her and she loved you and maybe it was just the wrong place and the wrong time. maybe you'll meet up with her in the future, but trust that to fate & destiny. in the meantime carry on with your life head up and keep your strength. you'll meet others in this grand adventure. and if you're meant to get back together with her, what will be will be. just don't turn into a stalker.
2006-10-26 17:23:24 · answer #1 · answered by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all why u are giving the status as ex-girlfriend?You still love her and she too.Then you have an ego and may be u are misunderstood by her.So you both are separated for a short period.Am I right? So leave that ego--and connect her as you feel free for her.In Love relation there must be understanding between the two.Never go too far so that u will be misunderstood.
2006-10-26 20:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by Mehbooba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see, you are both are seperated by your egos, and you can't forget about her. I've been in this situation before, apparently theres a problem which you should know what it is. If not, you have to learn more about yourself and be true to yourself, if not then... let's just hope for the best.
2006-10-26 17:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be young, cause the first loves are always the hardest to get over, If your egos are the problem then either change, or admit that it will never work and consider finding someone else. If that is unacceptable, then you should tell her how you feel.
2006-10-26 17:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it still hurts because the pain is still fresh.. it happens to anyone who's just out of a relationship...
it would take some time before you can accept it. i know how that feels... no matter how you think of the memories, it will just hhurt you even more. you're not helping yourself. look for something worthwhile to do.. the only thing you have to do is accept it! start a life!
goodluck
2006-10-26 17:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You 2 still love each other you know it its time to let go and see other people i've been in that problem i kiss good 2
2006-10-26 17:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by Princess P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, GET A HOLD OF YOURSELF
Next, think of all the other problems in the world. AIDS, people starving, lack of education....
Your drama is not that big of a problem in the grand scheme of things.
Last, find yourself a hobby or try to help someone else out. Get your mind off of yourself
2006-10-26 17:22:48 · answer #7 · answered by misjes2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am currently in a 3 year relationship... we are both really strong/hard headed... but i can not imagine my life without him!! you need to find out if she loves you as much as you clearly love her. if she does not return the same feelings, then you need to find a way to move on, i know its sad and it hurts now... but if it wasnt meant to be then you just have to trust that fate will bring the right girl for you. either way you need to tell her how you feel.
well... i hope i helped. and good luck!
2006-10-26 17:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by jeaniebean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you always keep thinking about her. Dump your ego for the moment and take a step forward towards her. May be she will welcome you with open arms. A small separation at times increases the love.
2006-10-26 17:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by Meeto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
=) dun be sad .. im worse off than u.. my gf ran away with a weakling .. and i cant do anything cause they are hiding from me.. after beating the guy up two times.. **** those people who dun have a heart.. wonder why they enjoy breaking people's heart and avoiding us.. we jus have to get on with life... no way to cure this cruel world..
2006-10-26 17:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by mm 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋