if a 7 year old boy pushed your 7 your old son at school in front of you what do you do?

Answer 1

I would try to find out the whole situation. Maybe something had happened between these two boys that you are unaware of. Some kids will stew on a disgression for a time before they lash out. Don't just take your son's word for it speak to the teacher as well. Everyone thinks their own kid is an angel but that is just not true.

Answer 2

Talk to teacher about the incident. If its continues to happen, ask teacher to arrange meeting with the other boys patents. I have 6 yrs old son and once a boy pushed my son (he said it was an accident but it wasn't. because I saw what happen) I immediately notify teacher. Teacher told the boys parents about the incident and since then, everything stop.

Answer 3

"Boys will be Boys" If your son has no reaction to it and doesn't appear hurt by it, it has probably gone on for awhile. It is a natural reaction for you to become worried. If you feel you need to step in, step in with your son. Ask him how that makes him feel. It is okay to tell him that he can push back. As it is in school anymore, there is a dominance factor. They will grow up and know who the bullies are, who the cool kids are, who is the brainiac, etc. All you need to do is be there to comfort your son and be prepared to answer if he asks what he should do.

Answer 4

Honestly, I would probably do something that I would be ashamed of, like grab the little brat, shake the shi.t out of him and yell at him so loud that I burst his eardrums. Hopefully I would not do that. Hopefully, I would use this as a lesson what to do in a situation like that. First I would get the child's name who had pushed my son. Then I would go to the nearest teacher and tell him/her what had happened. I would also request from the teacher the names and telephone number of his parents, so that I could call them and complain in person.

Answer 5

I was picked on at school. My parents had always told me if some one pushes me push them back twice as hard so they fall on there a$s. So I did, and the bully never bothered me again. If you don't tell your child to stand up for themselves then it's an open invitation for other kids to join in.
I'd suggest enrolling your child in a self defence class. I joined kickboxing, I've never had to use it, but I know that if someone ever tried to push me around they quickly find the floor.

Answer 6

with out being there no. My little brother has Autism and that i used to homeschool him. the element that helped the main became sticking to a recurring with outcomes. We had a rigid time table 9:00-9:15: analyzing (etc). additionally, if he did no longer end his artwork then he wasn't allowed to observe cartoons after college. We ended up making a catalogue of "college regulations", and he became quite compliant by the top of the year.

Answer 7

Find the boys parent or teacher and demand that they be reprimanded in some way. But if you don't do anything the child will think they can bully your son and get away with it.

Answer 8

Isay excuse me, do you that was a nice thing to do. Be patient and willing to acknowledge he is a child even though he has just the most important thing in your world, wait for a reply and then calmly ask him for an apology and ask him to use his words. Putting his hands on someone else does not make him a man but his words can.

Answer 9

This happened to us last week getting off the school bus and I called the principal at the school. It was taken care of without us as parents having to have a parental fued. Hope this helped.

Answer 10

He would get a decent sized lecture, & of course find out his name...ask your child if there was anything that happened before the incident you seen & help him to figure out ways he can resolve the issue on his own. And make sure to inform the teacher & continue to keep tabs on the issues your child may be having at school. it's not easy but it let's everyone involved know that you care & your not willing to settle on your child's safety.

Good Luck!