I met a guy on the internet and we decided to met each other. We went to a local pool hall/Bar. We played pool and drank a few beers and talked a lot. I think things went well. It was only for about an hour and a half because I got called into work, but for that whole time I think we had fun. He bought me a beer and everything and when it was time to leave and we walked outside he put his arm around my shoulder and gave me a slight hug and I forgot what he said but it was good night or something like that. I sent him an email the next day telling him thanks for the evening I had fun hope we do it again. It's been 3 days and I haven't heard anything from him. What I want to know is did I miss something and he's not interested or am I expecting something to soon? Should I give it up as a lost cause or wait a little longer?
2006-10-26 17:18:10 · 15 answers · asked by happy_cute_mom 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I explained to him about being called into work as soon as I got there and I apologized for it. Also I'm not taking this to heart I realize it was a first meeting/date but I did think he was a nice guy and if he's not interested I can move on I just wanted advice to see if I should give him some time and a chance to respond to me.
2006-10-26 17:32:36 · update #1
i would at least give him a week...if he dont contact you, shoot him an email and if he dont respond, then i think it wont happen.
2006-10-26 17:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by johnnypsf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was one date for an hour and a half. Don't take it so personal.
He may be interested and has been busy. But he may not be interested at all and you will never know "why". Don't let something like this make you second guess yourself or agonize over every detail of the night. If he doesn't write back...No point in calling him. You aren't desperate. Just have another date with someone else. sometimes a date is just a date. Don't read into it too much. Relax and enjoy going out.
2006-10-27 00:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little of both: expecting something to soon, and he's not crazy about you. You were probably ok to him, but if he really liked you he would have either called or repsonded to your email. So you met a guy and had a fun time -- that could be all it amounts to. No big deal.
2006-10-27 00:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you do for a living. Leaving a first meeting after 90 minutes seems like bad form on your part, unless you are a surgeon or on a SWAT team. If you spent a bit of that time on the phone, you are probably dismissed.
2006-10-27 00:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by Horndog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd try e-mailing him one more time if he doesn't answer in a timely manner i'd write him off.he probably isn't interested.but from how you described the date it sounded like a good first date.maybe he felt the getting called in to work was preplanned on your part to get you out of the date early.and maybe he is a superficial jerk who could't appreciate the niceness of having a gal who's fun to hang with.
2006-10-27 00:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by t.j. a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he went out of town or something happened to his Pc, give it a couple days, then email again, just checking in on him, making sure he received your first email, if no response, let it go.
2006-10-27 00:21:28 · answer #6 · answered by advicemama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he's waiting on you to call or send an email not to say he's controlling you but remember you were the one that had to leave and at time we want to feel like your interested too so go ahead and give him a call
2006-10-27 00:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by gsxr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometime at first date, guy usually speak alot and there is bulk of meaning behind it which I think you has miss what he want. So recall those things that both of you has chat maybe the answer is in it. Good Luck.
2006-10-27 00:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by Cindy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, did you tell him you were called into work(i know it sounds liek a silly qyuestion, but bear with me)if youjust said you had to go, he proboly assumed that you didnt think the date went all that well. or, he could just be nervous, us guys we get teh jitters, so you might want to send hima reassuring email, tell him that youd liek to go out again, then youll knwo for sure.
2006-10-27 00:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by irishthunda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just wait. Something might of been caused from not getting his email. Just wait a lil bit longer
2006-10-27 00:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by ca4btts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow Irishthun's advice.
2006-10-27 00:26:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋