oh yeah, he's almost 20...just curious
2006-10-26 16:26:56 · 18 answers · asked by buddy14 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally, I would not look down on a guy for that. I was my husband's first relationship and I was also his first kiss. We started dating when he was 19 and I was 18. We've now been married for over 6 years. I have more respect for a person who waits, whether by choice or "not", than I do for someone who just kisses and dates anyone who walks past them. One of my brothers is now following in the footsteps of my husband. He is almost 17 and has never been in a relationship or kissed anyone. He, like my husband, has very strong convictions on just who he gives his heart to. I find it admirable.
2006-10-26 16:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by Mary K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, most girls are so nervous to be with someone, the last thing they want to do is have to figure out how they are suppose to do it. Women want a man who will just take the lead and guide them through it all. A girl wouldn't think less of a man but if women were being honest, there are only a select few (women) who will take the lead and if she does how many men was she with for her to get that kind of self-esteem? If I were you don't tell until you have already kissed and in the relationship. Once you are that far, there isn't a girl that wouldn't be hooked enough to say and ride out the wave to see where it leads..
2006-10-27 00:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would consider this someone I could teach all the secrets of pleasing a woman to. I also know from personal experience that this is something that most women will find very good, saving yourself for the right person. Most of us wish we had done the same.
2006-10-26 23:38:01 · answer #3 · answered by country girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that would be silly of me to look down on someone just because he has not gone on a date or been kissed!
2006-10-26 23:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no at this age it's still fine. he's just waiting for the right person.
if he 25 -30 i would start woundering what's up. And i would keep an eye on your back side,if your a guy!! haha
2006-10-26 23:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by angelwings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. And if anyone looks down on you when you are entering the dating arena, move on. Relationships are hard enough without having someone judge you like that.
2006-10-26 23:29:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't look down on him. When the time is right it will happen for him. There are no set rules for when a relationship should happen.
2006-10-26 23:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by Cymbaline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I wouldn't look down on him, he probably has his reasons, perhaps religious ones, or maybe he just has not met the right person.
Alley
2006-10-26 23:29:40 · answer #8 · answered by alleymarziacat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why judge ? get to know him and figure it out for yourself instead of judging him for what he hasnt done. Unless you go for the more experienced thats probably carrying some sort of std... good luck
2006-10-26 23:31:43 · answer #9 · answered by orange7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could find one. I could train him just how I want and make sure he does as I say. It would be awesome.
2006-10-26 23:28:54 · answer #10 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋