I would NEVER think about acting on any of these dreams, but it freaks me out that I have dreamt about him twice now...and yes, they are sort of sexual dreams. Does this make me a pervert?? Should I talk to someone about this???
2006-10-26 16:05:30 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I don't think this makes you a perv. I think that maybe this guy has some qualities that you would want in a guy and it is those qualities that make him attractive to you. As long as you continue to not act on these dreams, I think all is fine. If you ever have those feelings while awake about him..just repeat over and over again...jailbait..jailbait..maybe that will help. Hope I have helped.
2006-10-26 16:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by tiffanybrookep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just dreams. I wouldn't worry about it. We can't control our dreams. I too have had icky dreams about boys younger than me. I would NEVER actually do anything like that and I do not find them sexually attractive at all. I wouldn't consider you a pervert. As long as you keep those dreams to yourself. I felt really dirty after my 2 dreams I had... but, as long as you know its wrong and have no intention of ever acting out these dreams, I think you are okay.
2006-10-26 16:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ya what's wrong with you... you can't control your dreams?? Jp yes dreams are out of our control. As a young man of 18 myself I really don't think it would have been wrong because I was nearly full grown like a lot of guys that age. If he was still initiating things.. or making the first move I should say there's no way they could call that abusing him. O and that teach was with an 11 yr old- whole diff. ball pard. my 2 cents.
2006-10-26 16:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by AK-47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dreams aren't bad. However, you might want to try and figure out why you are dreaming about a 16 yo. Is it because you wish you were 16 again? Are you very lonely, and is he nice to you? Figure out why, and then go find yourself a boyfriend. Not him though.
2006-10-26 16:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you have no control over your dreams only your actions. You're not a pervert unless you act on these dreams or impulses. Alot of people fantasize about things they would never actually do.
2006-10-27 15:01:49 · answer #5 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes our brains like to go off on little vacations of their own, and sometimes they use things like this to get our attention. There's no need for you to have any worries about this at all, and to have a good laugh over it. After all, I'm straight as a rail and not into kinky things, but from time to time have BDSM dreams of other women, including Mystique from the X-men. Again, just like any dream about someone you know, I'd say just laugh about it.
2006-10-26 16:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by celestraof12worlds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No u shouldn't talk 2 anyone about this, we all dream crazy things but that doesn't mean u have something with this 16 year old and that ur a pervert. It'll pass :)
2006-10-26 16:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by Lexi_Corp213 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i don't think of you may want to study alot into this dream in any respect. everyone has strange, non-rational desires and that is in basic terms your subconsious playing in with you once you're asleep. no one plans on having the needs they have, and typically its a effective little departure from our genuine existence contained in the daylight hours. 16 or not, your dream is in basic terms that, a fantasy dream. do in basic terms not act on it at artwork although, lol!
2016-12-05 06:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's perfectly normal. Anyone who says otherwise is ignoring the times they dreamed about inappropriate encounters or is going to be very disturbed when they finally have such a dream. As such dreams go, yours is mild. It is beyond your control, you didn't do anything to bring it on, it does not make you a bad person.
2006-10-26 16:22:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not good. Obviously you think he's good looking and you like him to be dreaming about him. Be careful who you talk to. Definitely don't act on it...You could be accused of being a sexual predator.
2006-10-26 16:20:38 · answer #10 · answered by tikizgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋