Ok me and this girl will have been going out for a month november 3rd. I was wondering if well getting her off oraly and mmasturbating her was going kinda fast? And I was also wondering if wanting to have sex with her is going to fast after only a month of dating? See this is my frist time.
2006-10-26 16:03:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do it when your ready, never think of time and don't push yourself or her.
Let it run naturally, if you guys are in the right place and its the right time (as in no ones in the house, no one is expected back for awhile) then yeah, make a move but don't force her to do anything.
Don't kick yourself if you only end up making out, oral sex and sex in general builds from trust.
2006-10-26 16:08:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it is too fast...what is the big rush? I will never understand why sex is so rushed into. Relationship building is more important. By the time people get married these days they have slept with more people than they can remember. How special is that to their mate for life?
2006-10-26 23:13:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude-man, take your time. What's the rush, really? Put your testosterone-led emotions aside and take the time to get to know her better. Enjoy the smell of her hair, the feel of her hand in yours, looking into her eyes & just getting lost in them. If she's really that special to you, then don't make getting laid for the first time your goal in the relationship. Slow down and learn all the reasons you can love her. I guarantee it'll strengthen the relationship. And she'll respect you for taking it slow, too...especially if she's used to moving fast.
2006-10-26 23:19:00 · answer #3 · answered by Turmoyl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best way to know is to ask. she's the one that's going to have to be the decider in this situation. if you're both fine with it, then go ahead. if she hesitates at all, then just back off for now and wait it out a bit
2006-10-26 23:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by citygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry her first, then do ya thang. That's the right thing to do.
2006-10-26 23:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by ZX3R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go With Her Answer^^^^
2006-10-26 23:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by DOOEY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you asked her what would she think i think you should go for it
you need to get into our world any ways it great
2006-10-26 23:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by ardmore chic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋