Okay, this is how it goes. If you haven't read any of my old posts, I am in 7th grade and I am dating a 6th Grader. We kiss in public. We don't go on too many dates. I love her, and she loves me. we've been dating for a month now, and we kiss all the time. I kiss her on the cheek and head. We will kiss in any situation. I have not kissed her on the lips. For some reason, Every time I go in for a lip to lip kiss, she moves. I get nervous easy, so I just go strait forward and kiss her on the cheek. Am I supposed to move with her head to kiss her on the lips? Also, how do I know when it is the right time to start frenching?
Do-Nots...
DO NOT Say I should break up with her.
DO NOT Say I am too young for a relationship.
DO NOT Say I'm not supposed to kiss her on the lips.
DO NOT Say anything that will not answer my question.
All I want is answers. Please don't say anything that goes too far off topic. If your trying to make a point, you can as long as it answers my question.
2006-10-26 15:34:37 · 19 answers · asked by jordan w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've guessed all that i was about to say, anyway, thanks!
2006-10-26 15:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by Bear 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She may be a little afraid of you kissing her on the lips. So do not be too pushy. If you really love her you will be patient and just enjoy where you are right now. If you love her you will protect her and making her feel uncomfortable is not a protective attitude. Try kissing her on the cheek, but linger there and inch your way closer to her lips until she starts moving her face toward you. That will give her a little control over the situation and it will help her to feel she can trust you. Please do not push for more. Frenching should be along way off still if you are still on the cheek.
2006-10-26 22:58:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u thought of maybe she doesnt want u to kiss her on the lips if she moves her head when u try then somethings wrong with that pic, and secondly- a kiss should come to u its not something u force u have to make it meaningful and show that it/you mean it with all the emotions too. The mood has to be right u cant just try to french right in public go to the movies and sit in the back and do the steps that come natural.
Put ur arm around her (pull her close) for a few then if she seems like shes not interested in the movie and keeps looking at u then move in on her (slowly) then if u feel like the kiss meant something then just try to slip ur toungue out and rub it on her lips if she rejects u dont worry she might be afriad ( it might be her first time too) just wait a while (few days) and try it agin but believe me dont move to fast or shell think your wanting to get something else besides a kiss... hope it helped
2006-10-26 22:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by ~*CoUnTrY gIrL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way. . .Do you want something taken from you? the answer is probably no. Ask her if she would mind if you kissed her on the lips. My boyfriend asked me and he's at least 10years older than you and I appreciated it. It was my first kiss and the first time he asked i freaked and said no. But he asked again a few weeks later and although i was still really nervous i didn't say no. And it was so sweet for him to be considerate like that. She's just nervous as I'm sure your EXTREMELY nervous as well. Just breath. She likes you and you like her. I wouldn't recommend frenching right away though. It may feel like she wants to, but it'd probably just freak her out if your tongue darted in her mouth. Wait about a week or two then as your normally kissing just push your tongue slowly next to her lips a couple of times, but don't dart in there. She'll probably get the hint and open up for you. If she doesn't then just gradually ease her mouth open with yours. You may just want to send just a little bit of your tounge in at first because if she REALLY nervous she may end up laughing and biting your tounge. ( i came close to doing that because i couldn't stop laughing at his persistance, but when i got it together it was fantastic) Good Luck. And don't be afraid to go slow. Trust me I don't regret going slow and neither does my boyfriend and we've been together 8 months now. GOOD LUCK !!!
2006-10-26 22:46:30 · answer #4 · answered by Bast 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your girlfriend might be a little shy. If a girl has never kissed a boy on the lips before, it is quite intimidating. Be patient with her, it doesn't seem like a big deal, but to a girl, it is. You sound very caring. Always follow her lead. Don't rush anything, when she's ready, it will happen.
2006-10-26 22:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Manybe she is nervous and does not want to. Oh and stop saying your in love because your (not to young) but to ignorant to know what love is. Oh a month really? Try going out atleast more than a year and getting to know everything about her and starting puberty and getting a little more mature? This is not an insult but serious.
2006-10-26 22:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by Scrappy Doo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if want to kiss her on the lips it would be better to not do it in public, try to find a place with less commotion. look into her eyes amd grab her chin lightly and slowly go in for a kiss, that will let her kno that u want a kiss her on the lips. if she moves, dont sweat it, odnt try to rush anything, it will happen when she is ready
2006-10-26 22:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is prolly just as anxious as u r. she is prolly thinking, what if he wants to french? what is my breath smells bad? what if my lips a too chapped? ect. Try to move with her head as she turns away, kiss her on the lips, but if she pulls away b4 the kiss is over, stick to the cheek. hope i helped, i am in 7th grade 2, so i feel ure pain, and possibly hers.
2006-10-26 22:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by Styx are awesome!!!!!!!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she moves ,when you try to kis her on the lips .....the french kissing thing will come on it's own . When your close enough , you will know when it's time !!! Nobody can teach you this but comes oh so natural !!
2006-10-26 22:38:16 · answer #9 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how does she move her head? like does she tilt it to the left or right or did she like pull away? and have you tried talking to her about y she moves her head?? and only french kiss if you are ready,
there is nothing worse than french kissing and then something bad happening and then she feels bad so yea..
2006-10-26 22:39:25 · answer #10 · answered by shortsagitarius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps she's not ready to kiss yet. you are both very young, 11 and 12...i didn't get my first kiss until i was 16 and a half...(i'm 20 now) you don't have to be in such a rush to start kissing!! just enjoy your time together and most of all do not rush her, remember you're both very young even htough you hate hearing it!!
2006-10-26 22:42:14 · answer #11 · answered by Ducky241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋