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Question

i really love this guy and i am afriad he is going to dump me tommarow at his halloween pary who do i get him not to dump me plz help me

Answer 1

show up with a hottie.... purely platonic, but hot! make him jealous, if he still dumps you, sorry but you still have a hottie with you.

Answer 2

Even though I know that you say you love him and all that good stuff but think really seriously about this. Why would you want to waste your love on someone who doesnt apprieciate it . If I were you I would dress really extra cute and sexy for the party and then dump his sorry *** and find yourself someone new that will love you back. You cant force someone to be with you and if he doesnt want to be with you dont take it as if you did something wrong either. He is the screwed up one and will probably end up being very unhappy in life and lonely if thats the way he treats someone that cares for him by dumping them at a party. Dont end up begging at his feet like a stray hungry pup and kick his sorry butt to the curb and find someone that will love you back. Then he will see what a good thing he lost and probably try to beg you to take him back but what for. There are millions and millions of men in this world out there hoping to find a nice girl that will love them and they can love back so dont get stuck on one that wont treat you the same way you treat them.

Answer 3

Well, people always are going to come and go. Just look at the positive side in things. What if someone better is coming along. I know that you cannot live in the land of "if", but when one door closes, another opens. Plus, how do you know if that's going to happen anyway. Just go with the flow. If it's supposed to happen, then it will. You may be hurt for a little while, but there is more than ONE person that you will get along with. If that's your destiny (not to be with him) then that your destiny. Maybe there is a reason for this. Everything that will happen is going tp benefit you some how!

~~Good Luck Tomorrow~~

Answer 4

here is the thing, If the relationship was on bad term, and feeling start diminish, you first have to respect yourself, There Is a old saying why buy the cow when you get the milk free, see were I'm going, he may have found someone else, and If he know that you love him, and still wants to leave, guest what you let this be a learning curve for you, and the next boy friend you meet get to know him, don't just jump in the sack, get the respect, and I think you would have a better relationship, find some one that compatible to what you like, that the key, hope this help.

Answer 5

Its all part of growing up. It doesn't matter if you love someone. It doesn't matter if someone loves you. It only matters when you both feel the same. If he's going to "dump" you, he's going to do it, no matter what you say or do. It has nothing to do with your value as a girl or woman, it truly has nothing to do with you. It doesn't mean theres anything wrong with you or that he is a hoorible man/boy.
To qoute a TV show I saw recently, "He's just not that into you."
There are 5 billion people on earth. If approximately 2.5 billion of those are men, you lost out on one. ONE!
Deal with the dissapointment, decide never to give your heart so easily again. Instead, tread carefully with the next guy, and there WILL be a next guy, (and next guys after that too.) and give in a little at a time. Don't go to bed with us on the 3rd date, or even the 100th date, if it doesn't feel right to you. Be sure. No matter what evil lie we tell you, or what pressure we put on you, keep your legs closed until YOU, (not your girlfriends, sisters, mother, aunt,) believe in your heart the time is right.
It'll end up being better for both of you, he'll respect you as a human, and you'll respect him as a man. A real man. Not some player, gigilo, lying bar fly who is adding notches to his belt, bragging rights for his buddies, and leaving trails of broken hearted girls who have it tough enough in this new world, where there is no more respect for women and all they contribute, no regard for what we as men are doing to their collective self esteem, and no feeling of compassion for the pain we as men are causing the fairer sex.
If I was you, I'd dump him. He isn't worth it if you can even suspect he maight be thinking that. No man is. Neither is any woman.
Become kinder to yourself. Like the good things about yourself, know the less good things. Don't beat yourself up about the less good, but be proactive and do what you can to improve the less good areas, or areas you'd like to improve on. Don't worry about facelifts and fake ****, and liposuction, but build the woman/girl within you to someone you truly love being. Then my dear, you will be the most desireable woman in the world. There is nothing so sexy, and attractive than a woman who loves being a woman, has a quiet confidence about who she is and what she stands for. Is proud to be feminine and female. Men will line up around the block. Because, thats what we all want on some level. Its not concious, its instinctive.
Be good to yourself. God loves you. You are better than what you are putting yourself through.

Answer 6

Everytime he says he wants to talk to you find an excuse to get away from him. Tell him you have to go to the bathroom or act like someone is motioning you from across the room. Be all lovey-dovey and then if he starts to get serious, duck and run. That will at least stall him until the next time you see him.

Answer 7

If he is going to break up with you, theres probably not to much you can do about it, Just be sure if he does, make sure he tells you the truth, and doesn't dick you around. At least if a persons honest, it can help.

Answer 8

u cant change the guys mind. how do u knnow hes going to dump u? good luck

Answer 9

OK
if you dint want him to dump u give him love.
that always works with men.
striping naked also works.
guys like to see girls naked if its a picture or the real thing.

Answer 10

you can't make anyone do anything they don't want to do. Good luck. Whatever happens you have to be ready and move one.